Tips for girls on how to become ideal. How to be the perfect girl

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Greetings, dear readers and guests of my blog! Each person has his own ideal of a loved one. Some men prefer to date brunettes, others prefer to date blondes, but it’s not even a matter of hair color.

Every girl, with a great desire, can do so in order to command respect. However, not everyone knows how to become ideal girl for a guy. This is exactly what we will talk about today.

Who do men want to see next to them?

Surely everyone has gone through unsuccessful ones. Stupid people blame another person for all mortal sins. But the self-critical and smart will look for the reason in themselves.

Do you think such a person will make similar mistakes in the future? Of course not. He will draw conclusions and do everything to become ideal in a relationship.

Beautiful girls often find fault with male. They make a bunch of demands: I want a successful, handsome, muscular, rich businessman, or something like that.

However, pickiness is not only characteristic of girls; guys also know how and love to find fault. If we collect all men's dreams into one generalized image, we can understand how to get closer to the ideal.

Find out all the secrets of the mistress and enchantress

So what do guys like:

Beauty. There is no need to say banal things that beauty is within us and all that. Of course, a person must have a rich spiritual world, but more on that a little later. As you know, men love with their eyes. You have to like yourself in the mirror. Otherwise, others will not like you.

If you have any complexes about your appearance, you definitely need to fight them. Guys love a perfect, neat manicure, so be sure to take care of yourself.

Sexuality and femininity. Sexuality causes attraction to the opposite sex. No need to wear short skirt and stockings to attract attention. Sexuality comes from within, if you are sensual and filled with energy, then everything is fine with you. Some wardrobe items will highlight your features very favorably; these are all the things that make your figure look like an hourglass.

Openness. For any man, it is important to have his passion, but not too relaxed. He needs your openness to make him feel wanted. The girl should be sweet, a little vulnerable and naive in a good way. Only such a young lady will make you want to give flowers and gifts.

Balance and calm. Nobody likes to be nagged over trifles. Your chosen one will feel tired and run away from you. A real lady understands men's shortcomings. Such a woman cares, but does not control the actions of her beloved. Believe me, no one wants to live with a woman like their mother.

Well-read and educated. Great if there is common interests, for this you must have a certain outlook. Moreover, communication will be pleasant if topics of interest also find a place. This is a very important factor that cannot be missed, otherwise you will simply stop talking.

The person must be culturally educated. A rude individual who uses obscene language can only evoke pity in an adequate person.

Love and respect. A self-sufficient person treats his significant other with respect. Therefore, he will not stoop to any wrong things. There is a category of women who initially perceive certain men as something unworthy of their attention.

Of course, men answer them in kind. I'm not saying you have to fall in love with an alcoholic or a rude person, but understanding and loving your partner's shortcomings is very important.

Independence. Many women misunderstand this word and begin to behave as if they need absolutely nothing from the opposite sex. They pay their own restaurant bills, buy their own things, nail their own nails, and drive their own cars. All these qualities are good, but men should feel like hunters and conquerors of hearts.

But remember that you should not impose and constantly ask for help. Nobody needs such a relationship. Make sure that you have your own social circle, interests and hobbies. In the eyes of the stronger sex you will look even better.

Accuracy. This quality is very important for a girl. A well-groomed woman should take care of her appearance and the cleanliness of her home. She certainly knows how to prepare a delicious lunch from a minimum of ingredients. A real woman is a good housewife and keeper of the hearth.

After reading this list, you may suddenly catch yourself thinking that this is not all about you. There is no need to make yourself look like the image I described. After all, each person has his own vision of the ideal. But without these important qualities it is impossible to build strong and happy relationships. Therefore, you must definitely work on your shortcomings.

Find out now:

How to become the girl of your dreams?

Adults understand that relationships are painstaking work, but the lion's share of this work often falls on the shoulders of the weaker sex. Oddly enough, the future of a relationship often depends on the female gender.

First of all, always talk about serious topics with your boyfriend calmly, even if you are upset or upset. Never raise your voice or nag a man. If you have too many demands and complaints for your partner, then it would be logical to ask why you should date him at all.

Never try to change something in a person. Of course, you need to encourage him to earn money, but there is no need to make grandiose plans for a calm and insecure man. He will not become the head of a large company. Although, a woman has a special energy with which she can nourish her man and even make him a president, this is the so-called sexual energy - an energy tonic for men.

Most often, a man is looking for the keeper of the hearth. Keeping the hearth means keeping the warmth in the relationship. If you can do this, then the relationship will develop in a positive direction.

You must believe in your partner. An ideal passion will never allow herself to call a man a loser. Even if he is weak-willed and failures happen very often in his life, you must believe in him and inspire him.

Show respect to your loved one. The ideal chosen one will treat her man as a worthy person. You must understand the needs and desires of your chosen one and take them into account.

A worthy girl has peace inside, not struggle, she knows how to smooth out rough edges. There is no need to try to prove something or start a showdown. Of course, you will achieve your goal, but in the end you will be left alone. A wise woman always uses such qualities as cunning and flexibility at the right moments.

Don't forget about freedom. Even the most loving partner will glance at the will when a short leash is put on him. Eliminate overprotection and global control. There is no need to look at the phone and ask what he had with this or that young lady. Remember that such thoughts come from your complexes and problems.

My dears, now you know how to become the ideal girl for a guy. I hope my tips will help you. Bookmark the blog and share information on social networks. Bye everyone!

Many girls strive to get closer to the model, the standard. Then it will be easier to establish contact with your loved one, communicate with people, and conquer new heights. Of course, having become ideal in your own way, it is easier to achieve happiness in your personal life. How to become the perfect girl? What exactly needs to be done, how to behave, how to change? How to conquer the desired man, please others with beauty, manners, and achieve success in different areas? It is important to take into account many different points, try to surpass yourself in something, and constantly improve. This task is quite within your reach if you approach the matter responsibly and act purposefully. Remember a few recommendations, strive for the goal. The results will not keep you waiting.

How to become the ideal girl for him? Appearance
In an effort to become the ideal girl for a loved one, almost all representatives of the fair sex first of all think about their appearance. Of course, the importance of your reflection in the mirror in a relationship with a man is greatly exaggerated. But something really worth paying attention to.
Look after yourself. There is no point in trying to look like a fashion model or a movie star. Be yourself, create a harmonious and feminine image, attractive, moderately catchy.

Let's become the ideal girl for our beloved. Character
Character matters a lot. To become an ideal girl, you will have to change something in yourself, develop certain traits, and forget about some things forever.

1. Become more tender, soft. Even if you are rapidly moving up the career ladder, earning a lot and making important decisions, you need to remain a woman. Don't be afraid to show weakness sometimes. Remember to use smooth gestures, speak quietly, and develop melodic intonations.
   
2. Stay calm. Most men dream of a calm, balanced girl. Learn to control yourself, control your emotional state, and don’t get irritated over trifles. Are you angry about something, are you outraged? Do not take any action, wait a bit. Then you will be able to look at things more simply and formulate your opinion more correctly. This way you will avoid quarrels and conflicts.
   
3. Respect his personality. Do not take on the functions of a teacher. Trying to change a man is a bad idea. You are both adults, it is important to respect the lifestyle and opinion of your beloved man. To become the ideal girl, forget about constant comments and attempts to turn a man into someone else who corresponds to your ideas about the standard “prince”.
   
4. Be gentle. Learn to give advice and convince so that your words really inspire trust and a desire to listen to them. Remember that peremptory demands themselves cause a negative reaction. Any point of view needs to be argued, even if it seems obvious to you.
   
5. Carefully build relationships with his family and friends. Establishing contact with the loved ones of your beloved man is very important.
   
6. Respect his interests, preferences, habits. Delve into the activities and hobbies of your loved one. If you want to become an ideal girl, try to be near a man more often, but not to disturb him, but to share his hobbies. Do not break his usual way of life.
   
7. Keep it individual. There is no need to completely “dissolve” in your loved one either. A man can quickly lose interest in a girl who does not have her own interests or personal affairs.
   
8. Create comfort, become an excellent housewife. Of course, you should learn to cook and keep the house in order. Comfortable conditions are of great importance.
   

Learn to be perfect in different areas, watch your manners, habits, and communication style. Respect the personality of your beloved man, be attentive to the people around you, and be friendly. Become the ideal girl and don’t forget that you need to constantly improve.

I thought for a long time about what an ideal girl should be like. There were a lot of thoughts on this matter, but I still tried to somehow systematize them. Here is a list of qualities that you should have perfect girl in my understanding. As necessary, I will decipher it in more detail. So,
1. Be beautiful. Beauty is not 90\60\90. These are just your feelings. A person can be comfortable at 65 kilograms. And it is at this weight that a girl can feel ideal. Here everyone has their own canons and rules. Of course, it is worth remembering that 1. Men are not dogs, they don’t throw themselves at bones. and 2. Rubens' women have not been in fashion for a long time. But everything in between is yours. Decide for yourself. The main thing here is personal feelings.
2. Confident. Beautiful posture, head held high. The main thing here is not to overdo it, otherwise He will think that you are a pompous, pretentious chicken.
3. Be active. Men love active girls, their eyes sparkle, they do everything quickly and well. So if you have problems with the second one, slow down. Otherwise He will say about you “every barrel has a plug.” This happens very often.
4. Take initiative. Diversify your everyday life. Offer something non-standard. For example, a sudden trip out of town for the weekend.
5. Surprise. Let not everything in life go according to the proven scenario. Leave room for surprises. Every little detail is important here. A new refrigerator magnet with a nice inscription, a sticker on the mirror with the imprint of your lips. Imagine, surprise.
6. Inspire. Teach him to appreciate your every gesture, every smile, every gentle glance.
7. Support. A man loves to be told that he is the best/favorite/reliable. They are strong, but always need support.
8. Don't advise. Men rarely like and take into account women's advice. This does not mean that he does not love and appreciate you. They just look at life from a different angle.
If a woman is smart (well, I don’t consider the “be smart” rule, everything is clear with that), she will make sure that the man’s decision is her decision. Only the man himself won’t even guess about it. But you shouldn’t bother him and approach him with your opinion.
9. Create comfort. The woman is the keeper of the hearth. It creates coziness and comfort. This means order, things laid out, a deliciously prepared dinner and always a neat appearance. Coming home from work, a man wants to have dinner and enjoy your company. Be prepared for what he might have Bad mood. Therefore, the nest you created should distract him from all extraneous thoughts.
10. Sociable. You should know his friends. And accept them as they are. You must be in the same company and on the same wavelength. Do you know how men like to introduce their girls to their friends? And pride in you, the best, is bursting if they see that you are positive towards them.
11. Be yourself. There is no need for antics, embarrassment, antics. Stay true to yourself in any situation. Be more natural.
12. Smile more often and don’t grumble. Men don't like girls who constantly have some kind of problem. Treat everything more simply and your man will decide everything for you. :)

13. KNOW YOUR MOTION. Everything I wrote about above is undoubtedly very necessary qualities. But overdoing any of them will only cause a backlash. Don't overdo it!

I haven’t been writing much about my life lately, I know. Somehow everything is still a heap and very unclear. I promise to improve one of these days. :)

Why be perfect?

Every girl dreams of being an ideal wife, mother, friend, sister. We all strive to achieve excellence in work, school, personal life and society. We strive for self-development and achieving our goals, and this is very cool. Our days are not aimless, they are filled with meaning, we move towards perfection every day and, when we achieve our goals, we feel joy because we did not give up halfway. Being perfect is not easy, it’s hard daily work, but it’s so nice to become a little better every day and be an example for others.

The ideal is different for everyone, but there are generally accepted concepts and principles that have developed over the years in society that an ideal girl must meet.

Let's look at them in more detail.

How to become perfect?

What should an ideal girl be like? What do you need to do to achieve the ideal? Many girls who decide to become ideal rack their brains over these questions.

So, the ideal girl:

• does not have bad habits. The ideal girl will not poison her body with alcohol and nicotine.
• controls his appearance. A perfect girl will not go out into the street with a dirty head in an old robe; she always looks impeccable.
• goes in for sports. Yoga, Pilates, fitness, swimming, golf, classes in gym– there are a lot of options, the main thing is to lead an active lifestyle and always be in shape and tone.
• erudite and comprehensively developed. A perfect girl reads a lot of books of different genres and directions, watches films, solves crosswords and sudoku, puzzles and charades, attends courses on studying Spanish, Thai massage techniques, cooking and gardening. You can always find a common topic with such a girl, she is a fascinating conversationalist, and has a wonderful sense of humor.
• controls her figure and nutrition. The ideal girl does not eat at fast food cafes, she lives by the principle “I eat in order to live, and I do not live in order to eat”; her dietary restrictions do not go to extremes and do not irritate others. A perfect girl eats a lot of fresh fruits and vegetables, drinks vitamins, and doesn’t count calories every minute.
• perfect girl smiling all the time, she exudes cheerfulness and a great mood. After communicating with such a girl, my soul is light and joyful.
• does not lie, is not rude, is not rude, does not shout. She knows how to control herself, control her feelings, and even if she is overwhelmed with anger, rage and others negative emotions, the girl will not splash them out on the people around her.
• respects his parents, older, loves kids and animals. Open to communication and contact with people.

The path to achieving the ideal is long and thorny; to begin with, you can take the following actions:

• Plan your day, don’t waste time aimlessly sitting for days on the Internet or playing on the computer or phone. If you have a free minute, it is better to spend it reading a book.
• Let every hour of your day be rich and interesting, learn something new, learn something.
• Get rid of bad habits, sign up for language courses or go to a driving school.
• Take care of yourself, do something pleasant and healthy for your body every day (mask, peeling, manicure).
• Make a list of goals and a list of your achievements. It is very important to complete the assigned tasks, and not deviate from the path and not give up.

An ideal girl is the pride of her chosen one; he values ​​her, loves her and is afraid of losing her.

What girl doesn't dream of achieving perfection for her beloved?

What does it take to become the ideal girl for your loved one:

1. Be yourself, don’t play a role, don’t close yourself off, don’t imagine yourself as Marilyn Monroe or a princess. You are you, be sincere and open to your loved one.
2. Always keep an eye on your appearance , appearance is not the most important thing, but guys love well-groomed girls who play sports, have impeccable style and taste, and don’t overdo it with makeup. Everything should be in moderation.
3. Develop, improve yourself. Spend time on education, work, courses. Guys in the company of such a girl are always interested and have something to talk about; she will support the given topic of conversation.
4. Smile, be positive and cheerful. It’s a pleasure to spend every minute with such a girl; she lights up our days like a little sun.

Don’t forget that your loved one chose you, you are a couple and this means that he liked you for who you already are.

Trying to be perfect for the guy you love is a good idea, but don't go overboard. In the quest for ideal and self-improvement, you can change beyond recognition, you will no longer be the girl he fell in love with, so remember the basic rule: “Everything is good in moderation.”

How to become the perfect teenage girl? How to become perfect at 14 years old?

Is it possible to be the perfect girl if you are only 14 or a little older? Of course yes! All ages are submissive to the ideal.

Self-improvement is a long work and it is better to start it from a young age, then by the age of 20 you will achieve more than your peers.

Where should a teenage girl start:

• Don't be rude or rude. Adolescence is a difficult time for girls; they sincerely believe that they are misunderstood or ignored. Try to put yourself in the shoes of your parents, be more loyal. Your family is your dearest people who love you very much and wish you only the best, so try to understand their position and discuss it without any showdown or unnecessary quarrels.
• Take care of your appearance and style. Don’t go overboard with makeup, it’s better to lightly highlight your eyes with mascara and your lips with gloss, rather than disfiguring yourself and adding tons of makeup to your appearance for several years. Choose comfortable clothes, do not buy frilly or very bright things, otherwise you risk looking like a parrot or christmas tree. Don’t “decorate” yourself with tattoos and piercings; over the years you will only regret it.
• Keep track of your academic achievements and grades at school. Education and intelligence are highly valued and, if you don’t realize it yet, you definitely will when you get older.
• Play sports. You grow and develop, and an active and sporty lifestyle will help you develop a figure that will be the envy of all your friends.
• Read more books. This way you will become a wonderful conversationalist and form your own views on various topics and issues.
• Do not use swear words, make sure your speech and pronunciation are correct.
• Don't have bad habits. Drinking and smoking are unfashionable, and a healthy lifestyle is always highly valued.
• Don't gossip. Only those who have nothing else to talk about discuss others, because they are narrow-minded and limited.

Guided by these rules, you will achieve harmony with yourself and society. Isn't this ideal?

An ideal girl and wife is a reliable support for her boyfriend and husband, she loves and is loved, such a girl is valued and afraid of losing, she is treasured.

In order not to destroy the relationship and be in harmony with your chosen one, you need to be guided by the following rules:

1. Value and respect your boyfriend's opinion. Everyone has the right to have their views respected and accepted.
2. Trust in relationships- the key to their longevity. You shouldn’t torment your boyfriend with scenes of jealousy, search his pockets, monitor mobile phone, page on a social network.
3. Loyalty. If you love your boyfriend, then why do you need another? If you like another person and are attracted to him, it means your boyfriend is not your soulmate at all, you should not torment a person and hide your feelings for another, this is dishonest towards him.
4. Respect and do not discuss his family, relatives and friends. These people have known him for many years, they are important to your boyfriend, you shouldn’t create a situation where the guy has to be torn between you and his mother or friend. The choice may not be in your favor at all.
5. Listen and listen. Be a good listener and adviser, encourage and support your loved one in problematic situations. Motivate your chosen one to achieve the goals he has set. He needs to know that he can always rely on you.
6. Don't limit his freedom and don't be fixated only on your relationship. The fact that you enjoy spending time together is great, but everyone should have their own personal space, for example, you can spend a couple of hours on a weekend with your friends in a cafe, and he can spend a couple of hours on a weekend with his colleagues in a bowling alley.

Beauty is a subjective concept, but well-groomed girls always attract attention and become the envy of their friends.

What needs to be done to achieve the ideal externally?

• Control the condition of your hair and skin. Make regular homemade and store-bought masks, take vitamins and mineral complexes. Regularly trim the ends of your hair and pluck your eyebrows. Nutritional control is also important; very often pimples, blackheads, and rashes are the result of poor nutrition and abuse of sweets, starchy foods, and spicy foods.
• Take care of the condition of your fingernails and toenails.
• Remove excess hair. There are a large number of methods - wax hair removal, laser, creams, machines.
• Choose the one most suitable for your skin.
• Choose your own style. Combine clothing colors wisely. Also keep an eye on the state of things. Fashionable, expensive things, but dirty or with holes, raise doubts about the girl’s neatness and neatness.
• Choose your perfume. Smells play a big role, but don't overdo it, don't pour a bottle of perfume on yourself every morning.

How to become perfect for yourself and for everyone? Is it possible to be perfect in everything?

If you want to become perfect for yourself and for those around you, then follow all the tips given above in order to become a perfect girl, ideal for your boyfriend and in a relationship, and also remember the following:

• Be confident. Never doubt your strengths and capabilities, you will definitely succeed!
• Don't be complex. Everyone has their own shortcomings. Accept yourself for who you are.
• Love yourself. How can you please someone and find your soulmate if you don’t love yourself? But love should not transform into selfishness or narcissism, everything should be balanced.

Remember that how many people - so many opinions and everyone has their own ideals. It is impossible to be perfect in everything, but this is not a reason to relax and give up. The desire for self-improvement is an exciting and, most importantly, productive process.

Useful tips from a psychologist

All psychologists insist that working on oneself is a mandatory process in the development of personality. But don’t forget that there are no ideals, don’t get hung up and don’t mock yourself, the process of self-improvement should bring joy and not be torture.

And the main rule is: be yourself, don’t create an idol for yourself, don’t imitate. All people are unique and inimitable.

The right woman commands respect and attracts attention, so many strive to become one. To do this, you just need to act differently, weighing your every decision and step. We will now talk about how to become correct.

Rules for girls

To become the right girlfriend, follow these tips.

• Always treat people according to your conscience. Don't betray them, don't harm them, and don't humiliate them. Treat them with courtesy, politeness and try to help them.
• Do good deeds. They must be performed not only for relatives and friends, but also for strangers. To do this, you can become a volunteer of one of the charitable organizations, of which there are now countless in every city.
• Find your ideal. Many people who became correct had their own idol. They imitated him and learned good deeds from his actions. Therefore, it is worth finding your ideal and learning good things from it.
• Watch your speech. Good girls always think before they say something. Therefore, analyze your thoughts and express them in clear language, without using slang expressions and strong words.
• Behave with dignity. The right girl does not get into arguments, much less get into fights. When difficult situations arise, she always looks for a solution that will not harm others or her reputation.
• Follow a daily routine. A plan will help you get it right. It should be compiled for every day, where all the matters that you have to solve over the next 24 hours will be listed.

Rules for wives

Many women dream of becoming good wives, and there are also recommendations here.

• Become a good housewife. The right wife should take care of all family members and keep the house in perfect order. You need to be able to clean, wash, iron, cook, shop in supermarkets and perform other everyday chores.
• Become good friend. A good wife should always listen to her husband, understand his problems, empathize and support, instilling confidence in him. He should also always be confident that he can talk to you as with a friend, trusting you with his secrets and ideas.
• Become a good mother. A good wife vigilantly monitors the upbringing and health of her children. She also educates them and makes sure they don't get involved with bad company.
• Become the keeper of the hearth. The right wife should create a cozy nest where the family would rush to return every day. This means not only comfort and cleanliness in the house, but also the microclimate between you, children, husband and relatives. It is important to treat them with respect, smoothing out conflicts if necessary.
• Become an understanding wife. Be respectful of your husband's habits, interests and hobbies. You shouldn’t lecture him about how he lies on the couch a lot, can’t hang a shelf, or often spends time with friends fishing or at the bar. Better find a reason to praise him.
• Become desirable. A good wife looks after not only her husband and children, but also herself. After all, every man wants to see a well-groomed and beautiful woman, that’s why it’s so important to comply here, otherwise there will be problems family life can't be avoided. Find time every day to do beautiful hairstyle, perfect makeup and choose an outfit that will highlight all the advantages of your figure. Become gentle and kind. It is important to show not only care for your husband, but also love. He needs to see your tenderness, kindness and passion towards him. So don't be shy about expressing these feelings.

You can find more tips in our other articles.