Surely every person has his own list of words and actions that should never be forgiven to anyone. But love and close relationships often force us to reconsider our principles, and sometimes even change them. Falling in love sometimes blinds a woman to the ugly masculine actions of her partner, often forcing her to forgive something that, in general, should not be forgiven. So, what actions and words can never be forgiven even to a beloved man?
Treason
On the topic of unforgiveness of betrayal, the opinions of women and men unanimously agree in their majority - you cannot forgive betrayal! Betrayal contains several negative aspects - this is the pain from realizing the deception of a loved one, hatred of betrayal, and unbearability from the thought that he was close to another woman, this is also the torment of the fact that someone burst into the close world of your relationship with your partner also, having soiled and desecrated the Temple of your love. Sometimes betrayal cannot be forgiven even by strong man, and the fact of betrayal can simply trample a weak, sensitive person.
Should I forgive someone who cheated?
Of course, everyone decides this for themselves. But remember that to forgive does not mean living the rest of your life with a person under the yoke of suspicion, pain and this resentment. Forgiving betrayal means letting go of the situation, completely clearing your heart of grievances and starting life with clean slate, never returning to the past. Read also: How to react correctly to his betrayal?
A man raised his hand to a woman
The sad statistics provided by psychologists indicate that the first time a man raises his hand to a woman soon becomes part of his rule of communication with his partner. A man is very strong by nature, and he is able to protect his loved ones, as well as refrain from excessive emotionality and aggression. Strong man will never allow himself to humiliate a loved one.
The one who raised his hand to a woman is a creature with an unbalanced psyche, who will easily do it the second and tenth time, each time becoming more and more excited and using more and more sophisticated methods of humiliating his wife.
Man beats children
While the debate about whether physical punishment of children is necessary or is not permissible subsides, those men who do not have the right to be called men open their hands to their children, explaining this with fatherly love and the desire to raise them good people.
The highest role of a mother is to protect her children from all the cruelties in this world. So is it worth forgiving a person who regularly tortures your flesh and blood? Is your love for your husband or the habit of living with him worth all the humiliation, physical and moral pain of your child?
Lie
Whatever a man's lie - small or big - it can become a serious obstacle to this couple's path to happiness. As a rule, it is small lies that undermine relationships - every day, bit by bit, suddenly over time growing into a snowball that can no longer be moved to the side. A man’s lie is a serious reason to doubt his feelings and sincerity. Relationships are built on trust; if there is no trust, there will be no love.
Public words of insult towards a woman
Dirty words spoken by a man in public should not be forgiven. If a man suddenly begins to share intimate secrets of your relationship with friends, rudely criticize you, and utter obscene expressions at you, this is a serious reason to reconsider your relationship with him. Under no circumstances should you forgive a man for such behavior - unless, of course, you want to remain humiliated and insulted for the rest of your life, and possibly even beaten in public.
Disrespectful attitude towards women
“That blonde has a super figure, and after giving birth you spread out like a cow”, “What do you care about this woman, you don’t even know how to cook”, “My ex kept order, but yours is always a mess” - and so they continue Comparisons of you with all women on Earth, naturally, are not in your favor. Should this be forgiven?
Incredible facts
If you think that cheating is the worst thing that can happen to a couple, then you are wrong.
There are scary things men do in relationships that...capable of destroying everything. And we are not talking about betrayal at all.
These actions are worse than betrayal, and a woman simply does not have the right to forgive her man for them.
What can’t a man be forgiven for?
1. When he texts or chats with other women behind your back, then denies his guilt when you expose him.
This behavior borders on deception and betrayal. Flirting is a mild degree of betrayal.
And if your man gives in to provocations by responding to messages from other girls, this can slowly destroy the “perfect” relationship.
If a man is in a serious relationship, there is no need to text and flirt with other women behind your back.
2. When he doesn't respect your job/career/hobby
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If your man makes snarky jokes or nasty comments, implying that your job or hobbies don't really matter, this is a bad sign.
By not respecting your interests, he is also disrespectful towards you. He just doesn't take you seriously.
This also means that your man sees you as someone who is unable to take care of himself, and he will definitely not be someone you can talk to about your problems and discuss your troubles.
3. When he blames you for his defeats and failures
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He is an adult, and no one is to blame for his failures except himself.
If a man lashes out at you and blames you for his mistakes, this means that he is an absolutely immature person and shifts responsibility for his actions to someone else.
Such things cannot be forgiven.
4. When he is disrespectful and rude to your family members or your boyfriends
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He obviously never learned one of the most important lessons in life, which is: the way to the heart of your loved one is through her family!
This means you need to learn to get along with your beloved’s family.
If he didn't, you will feel tension throughout your entire relationship. living together. Joint dinners, going to restaurants and other events will turn into sheer torture.
5. When he shares your candid photos with friends or acquaintances
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A person does not respect you and does not value you if he allows himself to do this. Your intimate photos are something that should remain only between the two of you.
And if it was his privilege to see you naked in photographs, this does not mean that someone else can see you in this form.
What can't be forgiven
6. When he pushes you to do things you don't like.
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He does not see and does not understand the very line and border that should not be crossed.
If he doesn't respect your wishes, forcing you to do something you don't want, run away from such a man.
7. When he takes advantage of you
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You are two equal members in your relationship.
Remember: you are not his personal ATM, you are not his driver and you should not babysit him like a child.
He is an adult and is quite capable of dealing with his own problems. Supporting a loved one is one thing. But when you feel that he is openly using you for his own selfish purposes, run away from him.
What's worse than cheating?
8. When he hurts you, another person, a defenseless animal, a child, etc.
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If a man raises his hand against you, or hurts someone else, this is a serious reason to sound the alarm.
If you saw that he kicked a defenseless animal on the street or threw a stone at it for no reason, this means that he is a cruel person. Thus, he takes it out on the weak, on those who cannot answer him.
A man who lacks remorse is not worth your love. Get away from this before it’s too late, or even better, avoid a relationship with such a person in the first place.
Remember, if a person is capable of inflicting physical pain on the weak, at any moment he can also take it out on you or your children.
9. When he abuses alcohol or other illegal drugs
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If a person has problems with alcohol or substance abuse, and he does not intend to fight this addiction, stop trying to help him.
Remember: you are not Mother Teresa, and if he himself does not understand that he is ruining his life, you do not have to do the same with yours.
10. When he lies to you even about little things
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Men usually lie to avoid punishment. However, if he lies to you often and even about minor details and without reason, then what can we say about more serious things?
11. When he doesn't respect your personal space
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If a man monitors your calls, digs into the history of correspondence with his friends, this means that he does not trust you.
Sometimes mistrust goes beyond what is permitted and takes on a paranoid character.
Unforgivable
12. When he yells at you and publicly humiliates you
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You should never humiliate each other, even in private. And if he humiliates you in advance, raises his voice or makes caustic and unpleasant jokes in your direction, then this is doubly unpleasant.
Do not forgive your partner for insulting or humiliating himself, either in private or in public.
13. When he compares you to his exes
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A woman should not care how many girls her man had before her. This all happened before, period!
But if your man constantly compares you to his exes, constantly reminding you of them, this is a huge disrespect on his part.
No woman will enjoy constant competition, even if we are talking about former lovers.
So there is no need for him to compare you to any of his exes.
14. When he doesn't pay attention to your problems or underestimates the things that bother you.
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If he is not able to help you solve the problems that concern you, or reassure you with advice, take care of you, then he will not be able to become that reliable support in life that all women so dream of.
And when difficult times come, you will have to deal with the problems on your own.
15. When you are not particularly important to him
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When a person loves someone, it is normal to put the person they love above everything and everyone.
You should be your partner's priority. If you are in the tenth role with him, after hobbies, friends and partying, this means that he does not value you.
You shouldn’t be jealous of a man’s work, but if it’s not about making money, but about less significant things, this is a reason to think about whether you need a relationship in which you are not valued.
16. When he constantly brings up your past
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If there were negative moments in your past, and you shared them with your lover, this is not at all a reason to remind you of this at every convenient and inconvenient occasion.
It doesn’t look good on a man if he reminds you in a negative way of moments that you would like to forget.
In this way, he hurts you and makes you unpleasant, which means he simply does not respect your feelings and desires.
You need to be able to concentrate only on the present and on the future together. Leave the past in the past, and if something happened before, it happened before you started dating.
17. When he doesn't support you
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Being next to a man, a woman should feel support and support.
If you feel bad, he shouldn't make you feel worse. He should be a reliable and stone wall, and not someone who will finish off morally.
If your man makes you feel inferior, he may be manipulating you. This makes it easier for him to control the situation and subjugate you to himself.
18. When he doesn't show you that he loves and appreciates you.
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If your man doesn't show you that he loves and appreciates you, then why are you even together?
He may not express his love in words, but his actions should speak for themselves. If this does not happen, then there is no point in wasting time on a person who does not deserve it.
Unfortunately, once the honeymoon stage or honeymoon period comes to an end, the newlyweds become just two ordinary people who face a number of problems.
These ups and downs need to be overcome together.
It is important to be able to find a compromise and forgive each other. But there are things that, indeed, cannot and should not be forgiven by a man.
Surely everyone has a certain list of actions that cannot be forgiven for any person, even the dearest and most beloved. It is quite possible that many people do not understand what exactly is included in this list until they encounter it in real life.
This is where the understanding begins to come that no matter how much you fight with yourself, you cannot forgive. Of course, everything largely depends on the person who did the wrong - it is easier to forgive a child or a close family member, but this often requires titanic work on one’s consciousness.
Essentially, what is forgiveness? And what does it mean for the person himself, as well as for his offender. Many people believe that to forgive means to forget; it is this misconception that prevents them from understanding why they need to forgive. Surely, each person has his own understanding of this phenomenon, but still, there are some common characteristics?
So what is forgiveness?
If you look at it from a philosophical point of view, forgiveness is the refusal to take revenge on the offender, as well as the ability to “understand” the one who caused you pain or damage.
Unfortunately, in the heads of even the purest and good people, after they have suffered the fate of becoming a “victim” of someone’s stupidity, thoughts of sweet revenge and revenge creep in. But will this make it any easier? Maybe in the first minutes yes, but then? Any normal person You will be overwhelmed by guilt, and you will sink to the level of your offender.
“Why forgive?” - you ask, “What if I’m not going to have anything to do with this person anymore?” Yes, if only for the fact that people who have learned to understand and let go of their grievances suffer from psychological disorders and stress half as much as people who live with their grievances, periodically remembering all the sorrows and hateful feelings towards the guilty person.
A person who believes that “such things” cannot be forgiven by any living person is constantly in a state of stress, subconsciously returning again and again to the experienced situation, which continues to traumatize him, causing chronic symptoms.
What do you need to do to forgive?
The most important thing is that you need to immediately understand for yourself that you can forgive, but after that, most likely, you will have to let go of both the offense itself and the person, because there are certain offenses after which you will never be able to return to the same stage and the level of relations that existed before the problem arose. You need to be prepared for this, both mentally and physically.
Become an abuser. Not in the literal sense, of course, but figuratively. Try to understand what prompted him to do such an act, why this happened, and also think, maybe your behavior was far from ideal, which prompted the person to do what he did. Here's a great idea: every villain has a dramatic story in the trunk. After all, an offender can be very close person, from whom you don’t expect anything like this at all, but when you stand in his place, you realize his motives. It is easier to forgive when understanding comes.
Let go of grudges. Sometimes it’s easier to forgive when you let go of grievances and pain not only mentally, but also physically, for example, by throwing a stone deep into the sea, or completely burning a candle to the last piece of wax. Such a symbolic act can help you never return to resentment, not in a day, not in a year.
Honesty. You have been offended, and you have the right to show your feelings, your pain and aggression. Even if you decide to forgive, namely, to get rid of internal destructive feelings and thoughts, then showing your anger will be quite normal and justified. And, if a person who really wants to be forgiven and your emotional state to be restored, then he is simply obliged to endure and do a lot so that you get rid of the heavy baggage of emotions.
What things are not forgiven?
All this, of course, sounds good and beautiful, but bringing it to life, as many may think, is not so easy. This is especially true in cases where the offense is truly serious. What kind of incidents and misdeeds are these that make your heart clench and ache, and your common sense turn off?
To be honest, everyone has their own list; someone can look at one problem philosophically, but does not accept another at all, and vice versa. There are cases when, for example, a woman who is too much in love turns a blind eye to too many wrongdoings, which may not be worth doing.
For many, the most important offense that a man definitely cannot be forgiven is betrayal. And most men have absolutely the same opinion regarding women. Betrayal is betrayal, humiliation, and the pain of deception; not everyone, even the strongest person, can forgive this, because thoughts always creep in that this could happen again more than once, because the person has already crossed the forbidden line. Who knows, maybe so.
If a man raised his hand to a woman. Even in the most difficult life situations, a man is a man to remain one, and not to stoop to the humiliation of the weaker sex. If this happened at least once, then this indicates a person’s mental imbalance and, most likely, he will not be able to resist the next time.
Cruelty to children and relatives. Yes, everyone can have it Bad mood, everyone can get tired and not want to see anyone. Children often make noise, play around, demand attention, but they are his children, therefore, when a man constantly beats children and insults your closest relatives, then you need to seriously think about whether this is worth forgiving? After all, it is the mother’s responsibility to protect her offspring, even from the father, if necessary.
Betrayal. There are different betrayals, each person may have his own reasons for committing such a base act, but sometimes even the closest people cannot forgive.
In addition to these main points, there are many other personal ones, for example, laziness, greed, rudeness, bad habits or selfishness. Ideal people does not happen and, of course, if you love and appreciate a person, then you learn to ignore some things, forgive some things, and get used to some things.
But you need to remember that you can forgive a lot, but it’s not always possible to forget and accept a person back. Having freed yourself from the unnecessary burden of grievances and tears, you will be able to look at the situation sensibly and determine whether you need all this?
And finally, there is another offender who haunts many - you yourself. Learn to forgive yourself, because we are also imperfect, sometimes we commit actions for which we are ashamed of ourselves. Cleanse yourself of resentment and anger, this will help you build a life based on harmony with yourself.
You all really want to believe that your new acquaintance is the man you have been waiting for so long and with whom you will build serious relationship. What if you made a mistake, because you have to pay very painfully for such mistakes later. What in a man’s behavior should alert you? What can’t a man be forgiven for? What signs in his behavior should prove to you that it is better to break up with him as soon as possible? This is exactly what our article is about.
Below is a list of 10 things that a man should not turn a blind eye to and forgive. These are very alarming signals that require an immediate response from the woman and a reconsideration of her attitude towards her lover. To put it simply, these signs should force a woman to “take off her rose-colored glasses” and look with a sober look at her new partner.
Vigilant control
Don't confuse this with genuine concern for you. It’s one thing if your man accompanies you from home to work, and then back. Makes sure you eat right and remember to wear warm socks in cold weather. That is, he shows attention and care for you.
And it’s completely different if he begins to control your every step, arranging surveillance of where and with whom you were, checking and double-checking all your movements. He begins to control your social circle, restricts your freedom, gets into your computer and phone without asking to check your connections and demands passwords from all your accounts. In addition to all this, they begin to forbid dressing beautifully, believing that this will only harm you. Psychologists call this behavior “psychological violence.”
Devaluation of feelings
Quite often there are men who are used to hiding their feelings. They don't give compliments and rarely say beautiful words and do not express their emotions openly. But they demonstrate feelings for their beloved through their actions. They provide help, give gifts, spend all their free time with her, and delight her with touches.
But if a man can easily shame you, ridicule you (and even in public!), does not hesitate to insult and humiliate you, such behavior indicates a desire to manipulate you, but certainly not love.
Vulgar humor
Not all men have a subtle sense of humor. They can make shallow (sometimes vulgar) jokes, blurt out some obscene language that can offend you. This needs to be stopped immediately and explained why it bothers you.
Everyone experiences difficult financial situations. A normal man tries to quickly figure out what happened, reorganize and change goals and plans, and then “rush into battle” again. 2-3 months is enough for him to change everything. This is fine.
But when a man, first for months and then for years, does nothing, explaining his behavior either by a global crisis, or by another depression, or by his subtle mental organization not understood by his superiors, this is not normal. Well, unless you yourself want to carry on your entire life a parasite and a lover of living at someone else’s expense.
Stinginess
Again, do not confuse male stinginess with reasonable prudence (saving). You should not be offended by a man if he objects to buying a third car for a family of two or if he is against daily dinners at a prestigious restaurant, each of which “eats up” a round sum in your budget.
Stinginess is when a man completely devalues the basic needs of his woman. This is also one of the types of controlling a woman and subjugating her to oneself.
Consumer attitude towards women
If a man believes that a woman, by definition, should simply carry out all the household chores (washing, cleaning, cooking, taking care of children, etc.) and at the same time not count on his help (after all, his favorite football team is playing on TV in this is the time!), then there can be no talk of any love in such a couple. A woman in the eyes of such a man is just a convenient tool for solving everything everyday problems and satisfaction (on demand, of course!) of his sexual needs.
Sexual promiscuity
Having accidentally looked into your lover’s phone, you are surprised to discover dozens (and maybe hundreds!) of phone numbers of strangers. To the fair question “Who are they?” he naively replies that he is just friends with them all. But he categorically refuses to introduce me to at least one from this list, immediately taking the conversation in a different direction. He reacts irritably and aggressively to more detailed questions.
Remember - friendship between a man and a woman does not exist, a man ALWAYS views any “girlfriend” solely as a sexual object in the present or in the future. I have already written about this in more detail in a separate article (read it). The worst thing is that the man doesn’t even let his surroundings know about your existence...
Indifference
What else can a man not forgive? An indifferent attitude towards you and the absence of any reaction to your feelings. And one should not confuse a man’s natural modesty with indifference. What's good about the fact that you are active in a relationship, but the man never called first, didn't invite you on a date, he's not interested in your affairs and problems. And I don’t really want to see you more often. You should not continue such a relationship and humiliate yourself in front of him.
Touchiness
It is common for all people to be offended. We were offended - we were offended. This reaction is quite normal for humans.
But when a man is offended by literally everything and for any reason, and after that demands that you literally beg for his forgiveness on your knees, then you should think hard about whether he is trying to manipulate you in this way, playing on your feelings of guilt? This is a kind of vampirism on the part of a man. He is ready to punish for the smallest mistakes and force you to react emotionally to his reproaches. Do you need it?...
Physical violence
Probably, you can (albeit with a stretch) turn a blind eye to some things if you have strong feelings for a man. But what a man can never forgive is physical violence. Assault, accompanied by male explanations: “It’s your own fault that I couldn’t restrain myself!” has no excuses. This can never be forgiven under any circumstances. Having forgiven once, you will encounter this more and more often, until, God forbid, it ends in serious injuries and hospitalization... Nip it immediately, in the bud and immediately break up - this is the only advice from psychologists for such a case.
Conclusion
Do not allow yourself to be treated rudely, do not allow a man to humiliate you in any way. Save self-respect and self-esteem. If you don’t respect yourself, then a man is unlikely to do the same. Without regret, break up with men who allow themselves what is listed above. Be sure to later meet a person who will appreciate you and will truly love you.
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Surely every person has his own list of words and actions that should never be forgiven to anyone. But love and close relationships often force us to reconsider our principles, and sometimes even change them.
Falling in love sometimes blinds a woman to the ugly masculine actions of her partner, often forcing her to forgive something that, in general, should not be forgiven.
So, what actions and words can never be forgiven even to a beloved man?
Treason
On the topic of unforgiveness of betrayal, the opinions of women and men unanimously agree in their majority - you cannot forgive betrayal! Betrayal contains several negative aspects - this is the pain from realizing the deception of a loved one, hatred of betrayal, and unbearability from the thought that he was close to another woman, this is also the torment of the fact that someone burst into the close world of your relationship with your partner also, having soiled and desecrated the Temple of your love.
Sometimes even a very strong person cannot forgive betrayal, and the fact of betrayal can simply trample a weak, sensitive person.
Should I forgive someone who cheated?
Of course, everyone decides this for themselves. But remember that to forgive does not mean living the rest of your life with a person under the yoke of suspicion, pain and this resentment. Forgiving betrayal means letting go of the situation, completely clearing your heart of grievances and starting life from scratch, never returning to the past. Read also: How to react correctly to his betrayal?
A man raised his hand to a woman
The sad statistics provided by psychologists indicate that the first time a man raises his hand to a woman soon becomes part of his rule of communication with his partner.
A man by nature is very strong, and he is able to protect his loved ones, as well as refrain from excessive emotionality and aggression. A strong man will never allow himself to humiliate a loved one.
The one who raised his hand to a woman is a creature with an unbalanced psyche, who will easily do it the second and tenth time, each time becoming more and more excited and using more and more sophisticated methods of humiliating his wife.
Man beats children
While the debate continues about whether physical punishment of children is necessary or is not permissible, those men who do not have the right to be called men open their hands to their children, explaining this with fatherly love and the desire to raise them to be good people.
The highest role of a mother is to protect her children from all the cruelties in this world. So is it worth forgiving a person who regularly tortures your flesh and blood? Is your love for your husband or the habit of living with him worth all the humiliation, physical and moral pain of your child?
Lie
Whatever a man's lie - small or big - it can become a serious obstacle to this couple's path to happiness. As a rule, it is small lies that undermine relationships - every day, bit by bit, suddenly over time growing into a snowball that can no longer be moved to the side.
A man’s lie is a serious reason to doubt his feelings and sincerity. Relationships are built on trust; if there is no trust, there will be no love.
Public words of insult towards a woman
Dirty words spoken by a man in public should not be forgiven. If a man suddenly begins to share intimate secrets of your relationship with friends, rudely criticize you, and utter obscene expressions at you, this is a serious reason to reconsider your relationship with him.
Under no circumstances should you forgive a man for such behavior - unless, of course, you want to remain humiliated and insulted for the rest of your life, and possibly even beaten in public.
Disrespectful attitude towards women
“That blonde has a super figure, and after giving birth you spread out like a cow”, “What do you care about this woman, you don’t even know how to cook”, “My ex kept order, but yours is always a mess” - and so they continue Comparisons of you with all women on Earth, naturally, are not in your favor. Should this be forgiven?
Respect is one of the pillars on which Love stands. There is no respect for you - and this love becomes “lame”, or maybe it doesn’t exist at all. Most likely, the painfulness of his own EGO forces a man to compare you with other women, humiliating you. Do you really need this weakling?
Male laziness
How often in life do we see families in which the woman is “me and the horse, me and the bull, me and the woman and the man,” and the man lies on the couch, finding endless excuses for his passivity...
Such a man is not looking for an additional opportunity to earn money, he is not trying to solve financial crisis situations in the family, and does not do any housework. The most favorite pastimes of such a man are watching TV, lying on the couch, meeting friends in the garage or beer bar, fishing, eternal smoke breaks...
Are you sure that at the moment when you are suddenly unable to provide for your family and do all the housework, your man will take upon himself to solve the problems? So is it necessary to put up with his passivity today? The answer is quite obvious.
A man's greed
It is very difficult for a woman to feel loved and desired if her man is stingy with gifts and purchases. In such couples, constant friction arises over supposedly excessive spending on the part of the wife and children. The woman in such a couple is unlikely to receive luxurious gifts, and if bouquets are bought for her, it is only based on the principles of economy - cheaper, discounted.
It will be very difficult for any woman to come to terms with such a situation, unless she has completely given up on her life. And is it necessary to forgive a man for greed?
Insults to your relatives
If a man sincerely loves you, he will never stoop to insulting your parents, children from previous marriage, brothers, sisters, etc.
According to many people, you should never forgive your man for insulting his relatives - even if they were uttered in the heat of the moment, and you should not forgive his ugly actions towards relatives.
Bad habits of men
Under no circumstances should a woman put up with the most common bad male habits - alcoholism, drug addiction, and gambling addiction. A man who seeks solace in these manias of his does not actually love you - these passions replace love for him. Although he can swear his eternal love for you - but of course, it is very convenient for him to return after night drinking or after major losses to the house, where he will be fed, reassured, and caressed.
Alcoholism, gambling, and drug addiction cannot be forgiven for a man!
Male egoism and egocentrism
Your man speaks only about himself, attributing all family achievements to himself. He is ready to go on vacation to the country that he chooses; it is he who decides which friends should be friends with you, and which ones should forget the way to your house.
A selfish man constantly desires attention to himself, but is very stingy in giving attention to his companion or children.
Forgiving male egoism and coming to terms with this state of affairs, a woman a priori assigns herself secondary roles in his life. But excuse me - where is the love here?!
