What to do in a nightclub. What to do in the club? Why is it bad to look at the dance floor?

And so, you gathered in nightclub, but don’t know what to do there, how to have fun and what to drink. Let's start by dressing appropriately. If you are a young guy, you can wear jeans and a T-shirt, but choose the colors so that they look harmonious. For girls, in this sense, it is much more difficult. However, now there are more than enough different clothes in stores, so you can choose them.

What to do

What to do at the club? Well, there are plenty of answers. The center of the entire extravaganza is the dance floor. And, if you know how and love to dance, this is definitely the place for you. And, in order to make a good impression, you need to go to the dance floor slowly - you want to look respectable!

• Well, if you don’t want to go to the dance floor right away, then go to the bar, call the bartender and drink something. While you sit and quietly sip your drink, you can look around. This should not be done intrusively. You need to feel free and confident. There is no need for any thoughtfulness and bad mood. Throw it all away.
• What to do in the club? If you are with a group, you can sit quietly at a separate table. Good clubs usually have several bars with TVs and live musicians, halls with billiards and bowling. Therefore, you can go there too. After all, what could be better than spending time in good company playing bowling or billiards.
• However, if you are not a particular fan of dancing, then go to the club on those days when some event is planned there. You can enjoy both the light show and the music. There are enough places in the club where you can sit quietly and watch everything that is happening, which makes it possible to simply relax.
• You can make new, interesting acquaintances, and this happens quite often in clubs. Dating can be either accidental or intentional. Random in the sense that you unexpectedly met some of your acquaintances, and they introduced you to their company. And intentional ones - when, for example, you liked a girl, or even several girls, and you went to meet them.

Binge

As we have already said, good clubs always have several bars. In general, in any club there is always at least one bar. So the question on the agenda is: what to drink at the club? And you can drink different things. The main thing is not to overdo it to the point of sad results, so as not to spend the rest of the evening in the toilet.

The bartender can mix you a cocktail. Well, if you don’t want a cocktail, you can drink (or not drink, if you don’t want) alcohol. In nightclubs various types There is always plenty of alcohol. Starting with light drinks and ending with some extreme mixtures. Most often, vacationers in such establishments drink rum, whiskey, vodka, liqueurs, and much more.

But, God forbid, don’t drink on an empty stomach, the consequences can be very sad - it will turn out so bad that your ribs will hurt, and everything good that happened during the evening will be forgotten, and only a sad fact will remain in your memory. There are also fights in clubs. Of course, usually no one goes there with the goal in advance of punching someone in the face, but anything can happen.

After reading this article, most likely, you will no longer have questions about what to do in a nightclub. Most various options weight. Try to find a decent place to spend a good evening and have a great rest.

“Derek, I want to ask, how do you avoid looking like a lonely psycho??? Recently, as an experiment, I went to a club with my sister to see what I was doing wrong... to my surprise, she accurately guessed all the guys who were there alone and hunting girls. She called ordinary normal guys who hung around the dance floor and just looked out for girls “shooters.” I don’t know why, but she also, pointing to the guys who were alone, without friends, called them lonely psychos.
Is there a way for a guy to avoid falling into this category when he goes to bars and clubs?”

For most young people, meeting people in clubs can be quite difficult. So they prefer to meet in bookstores, shopping centers, coffee shops and other “daytime” and “low-pressure” places. But, in fact, meeting girls in clubs can be much EASIER than in regular places.

I know this may sound incredible. After all, in a club you are faced with loud music that is difficult to shout over, flashing, annoying lights, rivalry between other boys, and girls with their beach shields. The worst thing is if you go there alone, you don't know anyone there, while everyone seems to be having a blast at the club.

Even if you go there with your friends, they usually can't help you, because all they do is stand still, covering themselves with a glass of beer at their chest - and have no idea how to pick up girls.
Has anything like this ever happened to you?

You walk into a club and look around to see how “good” it is. You go around the whole club to check it out. You don't know anyone, you have nothing to do, so you make circles around the club, looking at all the girls. You're getting bored. Maybe you'll grab yourself something to drink. You stand at the dance floor and start looking at him. Of course, 50 other guys are also standing, staring at the dance floor.

Like the master bed in the center of the master bedroom, the dance floor commands attention. He hypnotizes. You rock your glass of beer like a baby and probably decide to go around the whole club again.

Nothing happens and you decide that this club sucks and maybe you leave, hoping to find a better place. And of course, you do the same things in the next place you visit.

I used to do EVERYTHING the same thing. It sucked because it didn't lead to anything. The problem is that you're doing it the other way around, because by scrambling around for who knows what, you're passing on a certain kind of negative information about yourself to the girls, which is killing your chances long before you even make an approach.

When you make the rounds of the club, women NOTICE that you are alone. Most of them, of course, will not label you a “lonely psycho,” but I will make a mental note to myself that you are alone - and therefore have little social value.

Women give you social value based on how beautiful the women and men who are with you are. But most guys walk around the entire club alone many times, collecting NEGATIVE social value about themselves the entire time.

Think about it. When you enter the club for the FIRST TIME, the girls don't know ANYTHING about you. you can be best friend Justin Timberlake, who is known to everyone.

This is your chance to shape their perception of you. But what do most guys do?

They constantly collect a NEGATIVE impression of themselves - through wandering around the club and contemplating the dance floor. This is ALL that guys with zero social status do.

So when you approach a hot chick, she has no interest in you because she has already put you in that category - thanks to YOUR actions.
This is why most guys leave clubs because they are “too hard.”
But this does not mean that the clubs are “too difficult”. This means you are doing everything wrong.

It is very easy to make a club work for you. In fact, getting to know beautiful girls It's much EASIER in clubs than in all other places. And you can succeed in them, no matter whether you come alone or with friends. You just need to know what to do.

Below I will describe the steps that I use with great success.

When you first walk into a club, SMILE. A lot of girls hold the door under close attention, looking out for the guys coming in. Remember when you enter, yours social status- a blank sheet of paper, and you need to fill it with your first good impression of yourself.

Immediately when you walk in, OPEN (start a conversation) with the first suitable group girls or girls with guys. Don't look out for lonely girls, they're not here anyway. Open either a couple of girls or a girl and a guy who seem sociable.

So. This will immediately give the impression that you have friends here. No matter how well or poorly the conversation goes, most women will notice that you are communicating with other women.

Other chicks will immediately give you social value - because they don't know that you just met this fun bunch.

Remember GIRLS ASSESS YOUR SOCIAL STATUS BY THOSE GIRLS WITH WHICH DO YOU COMMUNICATE.

So, once they see you talking to other girls, they will immediately notice and be more open to talking to you themselves. This is not a conscious process, girls just do it automatically, without thinking.

So open your first group of girls RIGHT NOW. The conversation doesn't have to go smoothly; all you're doing is collecting social proof. If the first group isn't excited about talking to you, just turn to another group and open up to them. They will most likely talk to you because they have already seen you talking to girls.

You can just join in the party by saying, "Hey ladies, my friends were just talking about this and that...what do you think about it?" ALWAYS talk to a group of girls. Move from group to group. By the time you've spent 45 minutes working talking to girls, ALL of them in your immediate vicinity will know that you're a status dude. They will consider you status, attractive and simply handsome.

If, in this way, you create a high social value for yourself, then you can already approach the most beautiful girl in the club and say “give me your number”, she will give it.

Here are three points you must adhere to:

Firstly, don't stare at the dance floor like a martyr. It's really hypnotizing and can draw you in. DON'T LOOK AT HIM. There's nothing there. It's an illusion. Contemplating the dance floor only generates NEGATIVE social proof.

Secondly, don't walk in circles around the club. You just look like a run-of-the-mill lonely guy doing this. Also, if you have already created a positive social proof in one corner, then moving to another corner will only destroy it.

Thirdly, avoid the noisiest places in the club. Find the quietest area of ​​the club where it's easiest to talk and settle in there. You don't want to strain your voice shouting over the deafening noise.

It's also good to go to clubs alone. Why? BECAUSE YOU DON'T WANT TO BE ALONE FOR LONG TIME. Within 5-10 minutes of being in the club you should start talking to someone.

Look at the entire club scene as a place to score social proof points. Are you currently talking to a group of girls and scoring points? Or are you staring at the dance floor, alone, losing your glasses?

Remember, you enter the club with zero score and with clean slate. Everything you do will either raise your status or lower it. All the actions you take tell girls which category to classify you into: a lonely loser or a sexy hottie.

“How can I improve my social proof?” - that should always be on your mind when you're in a club. If you remember this, you will go far.
Now the question is HOW to start talking to girls in a club situation. What are some good openers?

After all this, I can tell you that you need to approach girls right away, but it's not worth much if you don't know what to say in the first minutes.
To do this, you need to familiarize yourself with the Technology of Situational Openers. It includes dozens of examples of what to say to a woman or group of women you approach. And they work - with practice you will never fail.

How to behave in a club

If this is your first time visiting a nightclub, an amazing adventure awaits you. The first impression is an unfamiliar atmosphere that excites the senses, cheerful people, a beautiful setting and booming music that makes the heart beat faster and the floor and mirrors vibrate.

So what does a nightclub look like? Traditionally, a dance club consists of a dance floor, a bar and a chill-out area. The main part, of course, is the dance floor, because people come to the club precisely to dance. There must be a special place where the sound engineer and DJ sit. It can be located on a raised platform or simply be separated from the dance floor by a wall. There may be several bars in a nightclub.

A chill-out is a special place in a club equipped with armchairs or sofas. There you can take a little break from dancing. Sometimes a separate room is equipped for a chill-out, furnished with beautiful furniture, always sun loungers and speakers from which calm, quiet music flows. Pots with live plants can also be installed there.

The set of premises including a dance floor, bar and chill-out is standard, but nightclub owners very often try to add variety to it. At one club the main attraction might be some sort of art gallery, at another a giant aquarium, at another a room with trampolines, rings, etc.

Some prestigious establishments may have a VIP room where only the wealthiest clients have the right to be. This is done so that the rich feel like exceptional and most welcome guests, without mixing with the bulk of visitors.

A DJ is a professional musician who writes and mixes electronic music and who is invited to work in a club to provide music for the dance floor.

Every professional DJ adds “features” to his music - so-called sound effects, which are a distinctive feature of his music. They are different for everyone. There are no DJs who play exactly the same music.

It is around the DJ that both the music and the visitors of the night dance club revolve. It is the highlight of any party and event. His work is highly appreciated by both clients and the administration of the nightclub.

Rules of conduct in clubs at corporate parties

Night clubs often rent various reputable enterprises in order to hold their corporate parties. The entire club or several specially designed premises can be rented. The entire club is rarely rented.

If you have received an invitation to corporate party, you must comply with the following rules:

The boss knows everything and notices everything, even if it seems to you that the boss has turned his back to you;

You should dress appropriately for the occasion. Jeans may be appropriate at a picnic or disco, but in this case they will only attract completely unnecessary, and, moreover, disapproving attention to you;

Don’t start talking about your work, because you, like your colleagues, came to the party to relax. There is a time for everything;

Try not to be the center of attention, unless, of course, this is provided for by the organizers of the event and your position;

A corporate party is not the right occasion to talk to your boss about a raise or promotion;

Don't pester your colleagues with inappropriate flirting;

A corporate party is considered a kind of work event, so do not drink a lot of alcohol and especially do not take drugs.

In nightclubs, you should never break dishes or break furniture, unless this has been agreed upon with the administration as part of an event or competition. In all other cases, you must apologize and pay for the damage caused.

How to get yourself in order

Correct your hair carefully. If earlier this was allowed only in the ladies' rooms, today you can, without leaving, right in front of others, fasten your hair with a ribbon or hairpin. Combing your hair in this case is considered indecent, because hair can get into a glass or plate, on the clothes, face or hands of the person with whom you are communicating.

Many years ago, women could only touch up their lips in the ladies' room or carefully covering them with a napkin. Today you can freely take out a mirror and lipstick or gloss from your purse and fix your makeup. Nevertheless, it is considered unacceptable to pour out the entire contents of your purse (jars, pencils, brushes, tubes and napkins) on the table or on your lap and start “painting” your lips “in full”, that is, tracing their outline with a pencil, applying lipstick and gloss.

Previously, it was prohibited to use aromatic substances such as perfumes and deodorants in public places, including in clubs. Today, etiquette allows you to spritz deodorant on your wrist or apply a drop of perfume behind your ear, but that's about it. Do not use deodorant or eau de toilette with a spray bottle.

If you want to lightly powder your face, use compact powder. Under no circumstances take out loose powder and a large brush: if you try to use them, some of the powder will probably fall on others, which will be very unpleasant for them.

You can take photos and videos in a nightclub only if you have received permission from the administration of the establishment.

The most common drinks in nightclubs are definitely wines, liqueurs and, of course, cocktails, which are even more popular than pure alcoholic drinks - such as cognac, champagne, etc. In addition, there are many drinks that, like As a rule, they are used in nightclubs mainly as ingredients for preparing cocktails - these are vermouth, tequila, gin, etc. There are a lot of such drinks, it is not possible to describe them all in this book, so below only the most popular in Russian clubs

The drinks offered in the club can be drunk not only at the bar, although, of course, this is customary in society. However, since many rules of etiquette in nightclubs are significantly simplified, visitors can freely move around the club with a glass in hand, slowly sipping a delicious, beautifully decorated drink. The only negative point is that you cannot dance with a filled glass, so as not to inadvertently complicate the life of your partner and the people around you, or even yourself.

How to behave in a restaurant

Unfortunately, today many visitors to nightclubs do not want to bother themselves with observing the rules of etiquette, believing that the establishment’s employees are obliged to patiently endure all their antics and rudeness. But it shouldn’t be this way, because etiquette allows you not only to show respect for other people, but also for yourself, and therefore, you cannot do without it.

While sitting at the table, do not talk to the people sitting next to you. If you really need to tell them something, it’s better to sit with them for a while.

Bartenders and waiters

Both bartenders and waiters are, first and foremost, ordinary people who deserve to be treated with sensitivity and respect. Therefore, if you have to deal with them, never do the following:

Don't snap your fingers in the air to get the waiter's attention. This is one of the most unforgivable sins in modern civilized society. In addition to the fact that clicking fingers irritates waiters, they also attract the attention of other customers, greatly disturbing them;

Never argue about who will pay the bill;

Do not call the waiter by loudly banging a fork, knife or spoon on a plate or glass, or by shouting loudly. It's better to wait until he passes by you and show him with a gesture that you need him;

You can tell the bartender from what ingredients and in what proportions the cocktail you ordered should be made, but in no case should you criticize his manner of work if you have not indicated in advance exactly how mixing should be done.

Rules of behavior in the restaurant

As already mentioned, depending on the status and type of nightclub, you can come to it at different clothes. However, if the club has a restaurant, the requirements for appearance the visitors who come there are somewhat different. You should prepare especially carefully before visiting a restaurant. Typically, restaurants are located in expensive, presentable establishments, where wealthy people go, who initially dress according to latest fashion, and therefore the clothes they wear to the club restaurant, as a rule, satisfy the most demanding requirements of etiquette.

So, if you are planning to have dinner at a restaurant, you should definitely wear evening dress, if you are a woman, and if you are a man, then a suit and tie (men without a tie are not allowed in many restaurants) or a tuxedo. Although, in principle, the form of your clothing should correspond as much as possible to the class and level of the cafe or restaurant and, importantly, the nature of the event held there.

Always be polite and friendly in your interactions with establishment staff and other customers. If you have any complaints, politely and quietly express them to the head waiter, and do not make a scandal, even if you really want to do this, because restraint and calm produce a much greater effect than screams and demonstrative stomping of feet.

To say hello to friends who pass by your table, you don’t need to get up, but to talk to them, you should definitely get up.

The employee must escort the clients who enter the hall to the reserved table, offer a menu, give time to make a choice and accept the order.

Approaching the table, the man must help his lady sit down, and then take a seat opposite or to the left of her. If a man arrived earlier than a lady and is waiting for her at the table, the head waiter is obliged to escort the lady to the table. If a man was the first to take a seat at the table, and a lady came later, he must greet her by getting up from his chair and kiss her hand (the latter is not always done).

Once seated at the table, you can take your time studying the menu. The woman orders first. A man orders dishes if his companion asks him to do so. If you don’t quite understand what exactly is hidden behind one or another name of the dishes presented on the menu, ask the waiter about it.

Eat slowly, chewing your food thoroughly. You should start eating only when all the guests at one table have been served the ordered dishes. Women are traditionally served first.

Drinks ordered must match the dishes. Wines go well with main courses, red with meat, and white with fish. If you don't consider yourself a wine connoisseur, ask your waiter for advice.

You should talk quietly at the table so as not to disturb others.

While sitting at the table, watch your posture. You need to sit straight, but without straining. You should only lean slightly on the back of the chair, and not lie on it with your whole body. Don't put your elbows on the table so they don't disturb your neighbors, and, of course, don't lean too low over the plate.

You may have questions about using cutlery. In this case, you should quietly and politely ask the waiter which device is intended for what. More details about cutlery, napkins and table setting rules were described above. They also apply to restaurants.

If you want to leave the table, ask permission from the people sitting at the same table with you. If you are sitting at a table and someone greets you, rise from your chair if you are a man and remain seated if you are a woman. It is indecent to talk on the phone while sitting at the table.

After finishing your meal, ask for the bill. It is usually brought in a folder or on a small tray. This is done so that the calculation can be carried out unnoticed. Tips to the waiter are about 10% of the total bill. They should be given at the time of calculation. Traditionally, the man pays the bill, both for himself and for the lady, but if she wishes, she can pay for herself.

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Nightclubs are one of the most popular pastime places for modern youth. Therefore, we propose to discuss in more detail how to behave in the club, so as not to cause disapproval or ridicule from others.

Basic rules

Of course, each such establishment has its own rules of entry and behavior, but there are still basic and most common norms that should be followed when visiting nightclubs.

• Upon entering the club, put all unnecessary items in the cloakroom: outerwear, bags and packages. If you are worried about the safety of things, then keep the most valuable ones in your pockets with you. This refers to the phone, money and keys.
• There are a number of items that are prohibited from being brought into the club. These include: firearms, gas or bladed weapons, cutting and piercing objects, explosives, drugs, potent medications.
• It is prohibited to bring alcohol or any non-alcoholic drinks into most nightclubs. All products must be purchased directly from the establishment you are visiting.
• When entering the club, be prepared for the contents of your bag or pockets to be checked. In this case, it is better not to resist, but to assist the security service.
• In the club you cannot break dishes or damage the property of the establishment. If you fail to comply with this rule, you will be forced to compensate for the material damage caused. The amount, as a rule, turns out to be much more than the cost of the damaged items.

• If you absolutely do not want or are not able to purchase alcohol at the club, then you can drink a small amount at home. The main thing is not to overdo it, otherwise you will want it even more, or security will refuse you entry into the establishment without explanation.
• Remember that if you violate the rules established by the establishment, then security and administration have every right to “ask” you to leave the club or prohibit you from further visiting it.
• You should not hide drinks in your companion’s bag in order to smuggle them inside the establishment unnoticed. Believe me, a handbag is the first object to be checked by security.

Photos in the club

Not many vacationers know how to take photographs in the club and whether it is possible to do it at all. Of course, there are establishments where photography and video shooting are strictly prohibited. I will definitely inform you about this at the entrance. In most places there is no such ban, but still general rules Nobody canceled decency.

• In a club you should not take photographs of people in a state of “non-standing”.
• It is not recommended to film fights or family squabbles.
• It is better to avoid any intimate shots involving other people, otherwise you risk your health.
• Before taking photographs of people you don't know, it is better to ask their permission. Not everyone wants to appear in someone else's photograph.
• It's better to take shots at the beginning of the party, when everyone is excited and ready to rock. These shots will be the most colorful and emotional.

Advice: if you are not a professional photographer, but want to take good pictures, skip the flash. Without her participation, the footage will convey the entire setting and atmosphere of the captured moment.

If you don’t yet know how to go to the club, read our rules carefully. They will allow you to present a model of the desired behavior. When visiting a nightclub, be prepared for an unfamiliar, beautiful setting, blaring music and a fun atmosphere. Enjoy your holiday!

For most men (not all), seduction in clubs is a difficult thing. Most prefer meet in stores, parks, on the playpen, and other places.

However, it must be said that in clubs there are much more HOT girls ready to meet than in other places. Of course, loud music interferes with communication. But it promotes faster rapprochement, because kinesthetic contact is considered the norm there! Besides, very hot and beautiful pussies go there! In some places in Moscow for example, you can meet girls not only highly intelligent and super beautiful, but also women other nationalities and skin colors. It is only important to know the places. We will publish a general list of places in the largest cities of Russia and Israel, and recommendations for them later.

In order to be successful in the club, it is important to follow certain rules. They have long been known to any experienced seducer. I will try to briefly talk about well-known strategies for working in the club.

So what do you usually do at the club?

You enter and confidently walk towards the bar.

Grab yourself a beer or other warming drink there, and while drinking it, look at the dance floor. Are you alone? If you come to the club alone, you are a loner guy. If with an unprepared company - a company of single guys. If there are no girls among you, this company is just extra ballast.

If you prefer to go to clubs in a group, make sure that they are prepared and have an idea of ​​the banal club rules acquaintance And seduction which I will present now.

Ok, by this stage you have already made several mistakes.

When you enter a club, many women and men scan you. Many people do this unconsciously. Who are you?

You can be the director of a company, a simple guy, or you can be a simple guy - a friend of the club owner :).

If you are alone, then by definition you are a loner. This does not mean that a woman will attach special importance to this. But the fact that you are alone is an indicator that you have a lack of communication and your social significance for her is falling.

Women look at who you communicate with and how. This determines your social importance.

Here are some tips to help you meet girls in clubs. Step by step!

1. Before entering the club.

It is in this place in Russia especially that there are often pandemoniums. This is a great opportunity познакомиться with someone to increase your social importance and accelerate for the upcoming activity.

Leslie: “I usually choose several outgoing people - guys or girls - and start communicating with them. The simplest thing is to ask a couple of questions. “Have you been to this club? How's the beer? How many dance floors? if you have chosen an adequate person, he will answer you something adequate and communication will begin. If you see that he has difficulty speaking - or he is very drunk and wants to answer something unfavorable for you - turn away from him and ask something else. This is how I usually tie it up acquaintance even before entering the club. And I’m not going in alone anymore.”

2. How do you enter?

It is very important to log in correctly :).

I'm serious - the first glance, the first impression of you will work for you if you do everything right in the future!

You walk in with a confident gait. Directly, and as soon as you catch the glances of girls walking by, just say hi. If you bump into a girl and she wants to pass by, make eye contact and say “hi.” Sometimes you can even block her path for this. And say “hello, let’s go to the dance floor,” after which, without waiting for an answer, you take her hand and drag her to the dance floor . If she doesn’t come, you say, okay, I’ll be right back.

In any case, don't waste your time. Entered - immediately go to the dance floor. To познакомиться, use the automaticity rule here. Act like an automaton - you go on the dance floor and dance to the girl. You start dancing with her and squeezing her.

3. Rule of communication in the club: I'll be right back

A club is a closed place. During the evening you will encounter the same person at least 5 times. And once you have opened her, there is no point in communicating with her for a long time, unless everything is going swimmingly for you. As soon as you feel that she wants to leave, do it first! Say “I’ll be back now,” or “wait, I’ll be back”! and get away from her, you can add “while you can have fun with your friends.”

Then she gets the feeling that you left her. Not her.

And after that, immediately start tying acquaintance with another group girls. Communicate constantly, switch from one group to another. Then after an hour of communication, everyone within sight will know you.

They may have just seen you with the girl you left. And therefore they will communicate with you with great animation and enthusiasm! For the one you left, your social significance will increase. And the next time we meet, she will be very happy to meet you!

At most, at the third such meeting, with normal interest, you can take her to a chill-out for a more intimate conversation.

4. Why is it bad to look at the dance floor?

When you look at the dance floor, you lower your social importance in the eyes of women.

When you don't pay attention to the dance floor, but do something more interesting, their interest in you increases significantly. They start asking why is this guy so independent? He's probably so cool that what's happening on the dance floor isn't interesting to him!

It is also advisable to go out on the dance floor without looking closely at it for too long. I often see this situation: “a guy looks at the dance floor for 5 minutes, and it’s written on his face - is there something terrible there? And then it gets resolved, or someone picks it up. His social significance for those outside the dance floor, and even more so for those on the dance floor, whom he so diligently stared at, is decreasing.” Chance to start acquaintance, get close to the pretty one girl drops noticeably.

5. Capture the attention of the majority

if the dance floor is small - about 5x5 - dance in the center of the dance floor.

If it is huge, try to attract the attention of as many people as possible. That is, to be visible.

Never hang out on the outskirts of the dance floor. Always be in the center!

6. Participate in competitions

Sometimes clubs hold competitions and events. One day my friend and I went to a club and won all the competitions. Our social significance became such that we attracted the maximum attention of bartenders, DJs and vacationers. AND women they ran up to us, they wanted познакомиться, pulled us out onto the dance floor. As a result, there I communicated with the most attractive young ladies and had a lot of fun when I went home with the girl!

I’m in clubs, trying to shine as much as possible in order to seduce the brightest women there!

7. Don’t drink alcoholic drinks in the club.

This is advice to all seducers - during seduction - do not drink! Use your natural state. If you can’t speed up, learn to do it without alcohol! Otherwise you will become a complete alcoholic.

To the girl more pleasant познакомиться and chat with a sober person a man. If you're drunk, you won't be able to think straight, and you'll be unlikely to have a suitable acquaintance, in the best case, you will leave with whom you came, in the worst case, it will end up in the toilet.

Leslie: “When I hang out in clubs, people often ask me, “What were you smoking?” I induce this state of sausage in myself without LSD or alcohol. This skill is very useful for both practice and health!”