As real friends, we will not pry into your soul and find out which of you really abandoned whom. That's not the point. The important thing is that you are finally breaking up, which means these tips will come in handy.
First, sober up and decide what you now want from this woman. Having discarded criminal options, we have identified the four most common models for the further development of your relationship. You know that you will either become friends, or meet for sex, or after some time try to start all over again, or separate forever. From now on, you don’t have to guess what will happen next: you can choose any of the models for developing relationships yourself. Recommendations for communicating with your ex-girlfriend, which we compiled with the help of psychologist, interpersonal relations specialist and TV presenter Yana Laputina, will help you!
Model one - Friends
The most common, and therefore basic, model of relationships. Not everyone succeeds in becoming friends, but many try. The reasons for these efforts are clear. On the one hand, waking up every morning in the same bed is already unbearable, on the other hand, no one but her knows you so well, which means that only with her can you share small but important joys and only with her can you ask for advice on any topic , be it work or a relationship with a new friend. In a word, you have already accepted that this is not your woman, but you don’t want to lose her as a person. Not only that, but you suddenly started to believe in cross-gender friendships. Precisely friendship - without options after some time to try everything all over again. And even without drunken sex. And not just drunk - without sex with this woman at all. After all, you are friends!
Model features
The expert dubbed this model the most honest (although in reality this is not the case - if a man who has broken up with a woman, especially if she left him, believes that there is now friendship between them, he is deceiving himself), because relying on friendship implies, perhaps, the most civilized separation as possible. “True, I am wary of the very formulation “we will part as friends,” because in many cases this only means that the partners have no complaints against each other,” says the expert. But this is not friendship, but something like “let’s get to know each other.” And after breaking up, you are a priori acquaintances, even if during the last quarrel you pull each other’s hair out. So before you take any action, honestly answer two questions for yourself.
First: do you understand what friendship is with a woman, not necessarily with an ex?
Second: why do you need this friendship? The answer to the first question is partially revealed above: you, almost as before, share secrets and secrets, ask each other for advice or to borrow money. By the way, you will also have to be happy that she is much happier with her new boyfriend than in your best time. Think about the second question without our prompts. Weigh all the pros and cons and decide whether you really need it. Maybe it's better to just be acquaintances?
How dangerous is the Friends model?
“The main danger is that you will never be able to be friends in the full sense of the word: it is extremely rare that people break up without a shadow of hatred, desires to return the relationship and claims against each other,” says Yana Laputina. However, this danger is scary not because of the presence of mutual claims, but because you can’t do anything about it, this danger: you need to take it for granted and simply take a risk.
It is possible that one of you will want to return the relationship. If this someone is you, think carefully and, if you really need it, go to option B, that is, model 2, and act on a new strategy. Since your emotional stability is currently poor, we consider it our duty to remind you that a passionate desire to return everything usually arises in the first months after a breakup, which is absolutely natural if there is no replacement for your ex-girlfriend.
You need to get through this period, and the simple joys of life will help you with this. For example, find a new girl. If you are not yet familiar with the beliefs of pick-up artists and you think that sleeping with a new girl you know just to get over a breakup is too mean even for you, pick up women for money.
Other options for distraction: throw yourself into a new project at work, go on vacation, find a new hobby, sign up for a foreign language course. “If your ex wants to try everything first, but you don’t, then it’s better to just talk to her and explain that you’re not ready for a repeat. At the same time, make an appointment in a completely new place for both of you and stop any attempts by the girl to start a conversation about the time when you were together, our consultant advises. With the help of nostalgia, a woman tries to check whether you are inclined to try again. Support on your part for such memories is something of a “more likely to be located than not” response. Your new girlfriend may not understand your friendship and may even think that you are still, sorry, in love with each other. To prevent suspicions, resentments and scandals, from the very first days of meeting you, do not hide from your new friend that you communicate well with your old one. At the same time, don’t remember what it was like for you two. And actually, mention that she has a new boyfriend, even if she doesn't actually have one.
What to do next
“Be honest. Say you want to leave and try to verbalize how you feel: “I’m tired,” “I don’t even miss you anymore, and it’s not your fault,” and so on. If you have a worthy person next to you, he will appreciate your directness. If the person turned out to be inadequate, you can only sympathize with the fact that you spent part of your life with him. Cut to the quick and better forget about the idea of being friends,” admonishes the expert.
“If your goal is to transform the relationship into friendship, and in the shortest possible time, the ideal separation scenario is when both partners are ready for this,” says Yana Laputina. By and large, you both feel that your union will not last long and the only question is who will be the first to decide to talk about it.” In this situation, there is even a chance that you will become friends as soon as you finally sort out the relationship. “We just have to wait until the girl is ready for this kind of separation. It is artificially impossible to push a woman to such readiness.”
Let's say the idea to break up is yours. Moreover, you are such a pragmatic initiator that you began to think about your initiative in advance. Having chosen the case, find out how the girl feels about friendship after a breakup and under what circumstances she considers it possible or impossible. “Since finding out such things directly is an inevitable path to unnecessary questioning, probe her position through abstract things. For example, through discussing separating partners in a movie or talking about your mutual friends Pasha and Masha, who separated two years ago, but despite this, they are friends like water,” our consultant recommends.
“Take a time out and reduce your communication to a minimum,” the expert admonishes. Remind yourself only once or twice a week, and in a purely friendly manner. In a friendly way it’s “Hello! How are you?”, and not “Hello, bunny! How are you?". “How many of your friends do you call bunnies?” Yana Laputina reasonably asks. Stop the habit of calling this girl by diminutive terms, even if it is not the type of animal, but her name. “Such little things will constantly hint that, in addition to friendly feelings, you still have something more for each other,” the expert comments.
What not to do
“Of course, this is a personal matter, but I would not advise having farewell sex,” says Yana Laputina. It will mean that you are not yet ready to part with this person specifically as a woman, which means there can be no talk of full-fledged friendship.”
Never say phrases like “You are very good, but...”, “I don’t deserve you”, “With someone else you will be truly happy”, etc. “Any attempts to provoke your partner to leave you are decided he, this desire to shift responsibility for his decision onto another, but you don’t do that with friends. You must be responsible for your decisions, especially if these decisions concern, albeit still only potential, but still friends,” our consultant admonishes.
During a showdown, do not try to negotiate friendship with her. “It’s like asking a woman during childbirth whether you will have another child,” Yana Laputina draws an analogy. She may be ready for friendship, but you chose the worst possible moment to find out.
“If you have not just decided to leave, but are leaving for someone else with whom you dated long before breaking up with your previous girlfriend, think carefully before telling about it,” the expert advises. Confessing, although you will be honest, will make you look like a scoundrel. “And meanness and friendship are incompatible,” says Yana Laputina.
“At first, don’t drink together. This is an axiom,” says the expert.
Model two - Backup option
Vika is not the worst thing that happened to you in this life. What is there! At some point, you even loved her and were almost ready to spend the rest of your life with her, until you realized that there was still quite a lot left. Perhaps you will really marry her if you don’t find anyone better in the next five years. “Your task is to keep a woman on a short leash, not to let her completely leave you,” the expert sums up the essence of the model. For everyone who decided to keep a girl in reserve, we have great news: despite prejudices, no tricks on your part are needed. Everything is extremely simple!
Model features
“This is the most deceitful behavior,” says Yana Laputina. Therefore, we warn you: if you are one of those men who are used to behaving honestly with women, it is better not to look at this point, but instead re-read about friendship. If you have great nerves, and you choose this model as your strategy for the coming months, here’s a bonus: the advice works, even if the girl gets another man during this time and it will be nice for them together.
Why is the model dangerous?
Nothing. No wonder she is the most cunning.
What to do
“By and large, you need to do what the first behavior model prohibits. Call your ex by an affectionate nickname that she likes, and start and maintain conversations about pleasant memories from your shared past. Remind yourself more often, and not only with calls and SMS: from time to time, go to the cinema together and to a cafe that is significant for you - for example, the one where you met.” Such outings will constantly remind a woman of the time when you were together. And even if she was the initiator of your separation, after several such gatherings she will begin to be overcome by doubt: was this step really the right one? After all, apart from your rows with breaking dishes and weekly parties with friends, whiskey and poker, you were a good couple.
Don't miss the opportunity to invite her to your place. For example, to those parties with whiskey and poker. Drunk sex is what you need to fully prevent a woman from forgetting the time when you were together. And “don’t let a woman forget your wonderful past” is the main thesis of the entire strategy! Thank the girls for their phenomenal sentimentality.
Finally, set reminders on your phone for your memorable dates. As before, congratulate them on “this wonderful event” and offer to celebrate it somewhere.
“Be” is not just a particle, but your ally, support and friend. Remember some rough edges in your relationship and insert these rough edges into the template: “If it weren’t for X and Y, our past would have been even more beautiful.” “Would” gives hope, as if by chance hinting that if you correct some details from the past, you will make an excellent couple, and the union will become much stronger than before.”
What not to do
There is no need to hide the appearance of a new girl. It’s enough to tell your ex more often about how you spend your time and, again putting pressure on sentimentality, say that everything was different for you and you miss those times. Don't forget to mention the merits of your new girlfriend - this trick will make your ex jealous.
Don't introduce her to a new girl. At first glance, dating will help increase feelings of jealousy. However, this move is more likely to make it clear to your ex that she has been promoted to the rank of your friends or even acquaintances.
Model number three - Sex only
A girl who doesn’t mind the fact that you have someone else and demands exclusively sex is no less a fetish than a personal secretary - a stripper or a ’67 Chevrolet Impala. And the main beauty of this fetish is that it is an order of magnitude more real than the other two! The model is similar to the fairy tale about Cinderella, especially if you watched its dirty version: although the idea can be brought to life, it can only continue with a single woman for a strictly limited time - details are below.
Why is the model dangerous?
“If you don’t stop in time, sooner or later the girl will begin to claim a status greater than just a mistress. Even if you discussed in advance that nothing but sex can happen between you, the expert assures. On the contrary, mentioning this agreement will lead to an even greater conflict.” The only way to avoid scandals from the “leave her, marry me” series is to sense in time that a woman is no longer interested in sex alone, and immediately retreat. Sorry, but we won’t be able to give the go-ahead that the limit on sex without obligations has been exhausted: such relationships can last from a week to several years, so you’ll need your own powers of observation to make a timely maneuver.
What to do
Invite her to parties periodically: it is easier to become a lover and mistress if you have sex the first time while drunk. And if a woman was not initially ready for such a relationship, she will certainly find an excuse in alcohol.
“Here, almost everything is the same as on the first dates. A woman loves with her ears, and therefore it’s worth telling her beautifully how wonderful your sex was. At the same time, do not forget to mention that in everything else you, as it turns out, are completely incompatible.” By seeing a woman's reaction, you can determine how committed she is to playing by the rules of Model 3.
What not to do
Even if your ex knows that you have a girlfriend, don’t get carried away with stories about her. This is dangerous for several reasons. For example, your ex-passion already doubts whether she needs your new relationship, and talking about your new hobby will only strengthen these doubts. Outcome: you will only have one girl left. Another option: jealousy will awaken in your old friend and she will try with all her might to get you back. But the worst thing will happen if your mistress comes to the conclusion that you have decided to settle into an impermissibly good situation, and wants to leave you with your nose. In other words, the ex will do everything to ensure that the new woman finds out that you have someone else, causes a scandal and leaves.
Model 4.1 Gentlemanly and forever
You have decided that it is better for you not to see each other again, and you are ready to take all measures for this. However, what can we hide, with this woman you spent, if not the best time of your entire life, then certainly not the most uninteresting. And therefore, she did not deserve any scandals, nor the role of a backup option, nor the place of a sex doll. In a word, despite the fact that you are breaking up, you want to remain a great guy for her, with whom for some reason it just didn’t work out.
Model features
Even if you move to the other side of the world, your plan to never see this girl again may fail. Especially if you haven't changed your mind about being a gentleman. “You will never be strangers anyway, and therefore, when you separate, you should always leave each other the opportunity to ask for help,” says Yana Laputina. You should no longer help with repairs, but if a very difficult situation on the verge of life and death happens in this person’s life, then he should know that he can rely on you.” “They may want to return you,” says our consultant. As a rule, men break down from persistent night SMS or offers to have sex for the last time, to come to her in the middle of the night, to drink together, and so on.” To stay with your decision, you need to be brave and stick to it until the end. Do not respond to such messages and calls, no matter what the cost.
What to do
“You need to indicate your intentions regarding future relationships already when breaking up,” says Yana. To make it clear that you are serious, try to explain the reason for your decision.”
What not to do
Try to do without goodbye sex. There is a high probability that he will be the beginning of the collapse of your plan, and the girl will decide what happens next between you.
Model 4.2 - With scandal and forever
A more realistic variation of the previous model. “Don’t be afraid of scandals, there’s nothing wrong with them. They will help you let off steam and relieve tension for both of you,” says the expert. We think you know how to run into a scandal: just talk about your complaints against a woman or remember the moments when you lied to her. By the way, no quarrel cancels a woman’s unspoken right to count on you in case of serious problems.
Information on the topic
It's evening, the sun is setting. My friends and I are walking in the park. And then suddenly in the distance I see a girl with whom I once, a couple of years ago, broke up very ugly. I decide that I need to talk. And I felt a rush of heat inside. Still, it still evokes some emotions in me...
I say goodbye to my friends, then slowly walk along the other side of the street, pretending to make a phone call. I cross the road so as to collide with her. I'm facing it. I raise my eyes in surprise:
Oh, hi girlfriend! - I call her by her last name, she doesn’t like it.
“Hi,” she’s surprised, because we haven’t seen each other for so long.
We chat nicely on abstract topics about work, salary, who is in a hurry where.
I say that I’m going to meet a girl (I’m lying). She:
With a girl, which one? Have you found yourself a girlfriend yet?
What, should I have been waiting for you? - I laugh.
I say that I have to meet a girl just not far from this house. To cause a little jealousy. We're on our way. I calibrate a positive reaction to me, no negativity. Oops! I notice in my peripheral vision that she is slowing down... Interesting. I use light kinesthetics, random touches. No negativity! You could say K+. Well, I think I’ll experiment, practice my NLP skills, do everything I can remember at this moment. We talk like good old friends. I talk about myself, she talks about herself. From time to time I unobtrusively remember our relationship, and so does she. She says that everything started well and ended badly, but it’s because of her, that it’s not my fault.
It turns out that she started dating her ex-boyfriend. I say that everything could have been done beautifully, but because of her nothing happened. But it is what it is (meta-message that I don’t give a fuck). We walk towards her house and continue to touch her as if by accident. No negativity! I continue to joke. We talk about everything, sometimes we jump into the topic of our past relationships. She says that she doesn’t want to remember what happened, that happened... I say that I don’t want to either. Yes and there is no point. Complains about work...
We approach her house. The place of my fictitious meeting is nearby, near the supermarket. I say that I came early, I still have to wait, so we can walk further along the alley (away from her house). Agrees without visible hesitation!
We're walking. Asks about my girlfriend. I say:
Do you need it? I'm not asking about your boyfriend.
In general, I’m starting to joke harder. We remember something again and discuss it. He says it's cold. I hug and say that I will warm you up. I rub her back. I pull away. I notice the manicure on my nails. Without much tenderness, I take her hand and look at her nails:
Yes, that’s okay,” K+, laughs, holds and shakes my hand. I suggest you tell fortunes for the future. Refuses. I say that it’s in vain, that he won’t learn anything.
We go far enough, I sometimes glance at my watch. I turn around and say that we need to go back. Let's go back. I ask what was wrong with me. Like, for the future. He answers that everything is so. Except for one thing - I’m married, and she was tired of worrying that someone would notice us, that she couldn’t go out with me anywhere. I say that this is interesting, extreme. Have sex on the roof of a house, in a car. But she didn’t like this extreme. - - Such great sex rarely happens, how often have you had sex like this?
Never.
So, you lost a good opportunity to do this...
We remember our sex. In general, I try to use all the associations and anchors that are associated with me. Along the way, I think he told some kind of metaphor.
I continue to study kinesthetics. He called her a bitch and a consumer a couple of times. She didn’t seem to be too offended, she said that I was cruel. I say that I am kind when people are kind to me, and evil when people are evil to me.
So are you really mad at me? - asks.
No, I answer, there’s just a residue left.
I ask when she treats me to coffee. Like, I still have her photos (I’m lying, I deleted them all a long time ago), and if she wants to print them, she has to do something. I'm interested. He says he wants to print them:
Call me, we'll make an agreement.
I roll my eyes and laugh:
What? For me to call?! You can call if you want! - I think that this is not the case to take the initiative. - And maybe I’ll print them out for you.
I break to the last. I offer a choice of expensive bars where she can treat me to coffee. We joke, we laugh. He says we can go to the Alligator (a cool sauna with a bar, restaurant, bowling alley). As a joke, of course. I say it’s possible, but it’s unlikely she’ll be able to afford the money. I suggest you pay half. I’m saying that you can have great sex and pay inexpensively if you do everything quickly...
Then I say:
And you’ve lost some weight... - really, you’ve lost weight and become even better. - And when we were together, you were so fat...
Did you really lose weight? Has she become ugly?
I look at it critically:
Yes, in principle, it’s nothing... Is your stomach gone? - I touch my stomach.
She looks around and takes my hand. But again, no negativity...
You paw me so much that everyone is already looking at us...
I ignore... We see some kind of wedding, a bride in a white dress. I tell something about the accidents in life, ask what kind of wedding she would like, tell me something again, tag it to her, then to myself (link it with the wedding theme).
We approach the supermarket, next to her house. It's already getting dark. We walked for about an hour.
I say I'm staying here. I say goodbye. She also says goodbye:
I'll call you about the photos.
Call me,” I say ironically. - Maybe I’ll print something out for you... if I want... Bye! - I turn around and leave without looking back.
It turned out the way I once wanted to do it. I fucked hard, talked, and found out the reason for the separation. He showed little interest and at the same time low importance for me. I even had a little fun. I lowered the importance of my current girlfriend for myself. I thought that, in principle, the hook for the future was thrown. Whether it works or not doesn’t really matter to me...
After meeting her, I walked around a little more. I met with some friends, and then, at about 11 pm, I decided to call her. I think that while the girl has not moved away from the meeting with me, the impression is still strong, and she is shocked by such a change in attitude towards her - something needs to be done!
She was surprised that I was so late. I didn’t want to go outside because I was already getting ready to go to bed, but I said that it would only be for half an hour. She interested me, saying that I had a surprise for her.
Girls are very curious creatures. And curiosity won out in this case. She agreed to go out, but only for a while. I stopped at a late-night supermarket, took a bottle of wine, two wine glasses, some sweets, and was soon near her house.
When she got into my car, I drove her out of town without a word. When asked where we were going, he answered with jokes mixed with black humor, saying, “I’ll take you into the forest, and there I’ll brutally rape and kill you.” But he did everything incongruently, so that she wouldn’t believe it and wouldn’t be scared :) After all, it’s 12 at night...
We arrived at one place, which is located far from the city, in the forest. It's quiet, cozy and there are practically no people there. There, on the grass, I spread a blanket, took out wine, poured it into glasses, and inserted a CD with meditative music. She didn’t ask anything anymore, we kissed, caressed each other in the moonlight, and then we had wild sex. I haven't had this for a long time! We did it passionately, like animals, biting and scratching each other. The surrounding atmosphere greatly contributed to this: the black forest, the moon, mystical music. We were blown away hard and for a long time.
It was one of the most violent shocks in recent years. For me too...
Are you looking for sweet cute names for girls? Are you thinking about what to affectionately call your girlfriend, but little comes to mind? Appeals like: “kitten, fish, baby” are already outdated, hackneyed and begging for retirement.
It's time to put them out of their misery by changing them to more thoughtful, romantic names. You probably want to choose a cute name for her that will make her feel special. And not the title that every second man calls his woman.
There are many different reasons why a guy wants to choose an affectionate nickname for his chosen one. Perhaps her name doesn't fit her personality, or it's hard to pronounce or just plain boring. Or maybe in your social circle, there are several girls with the same name.
Therefore, you want to somehow highlight your beloved against their background. Regardless of the reasons, a man needs to follow a few tips, thanks to which he can come up with an original and beautiful name for his girlfriend, without offending her.
List of how to affectionately call your girlfriend
- My love is the only girl you love.
- The only one - that’s what they say to a soul mate, a life partner.
- My queen is the name given to a girl who is the mistress of a man’s heart and has the strongest influence on him.
- You are my whole world - this is what they say to the one who for a man is everything he needs in life.
- Diamond - refers to the girl you consider the most precious to you.
- My baby/baby is suitable for a small, petite and cute girl who a guy would want to protect and cherish.
- My young lady is a delightfully beautiful, attractive and well-mannered girl.
- Princess - she is refined, elegant and unassumingly beautiful.
- My Iron Lady refers to a strong, independent woman.
- Treasure - for a lady who is considered a found jewel, the best find.
- Orchid - refers to a girl whom a guy considers special, like an exotic flower: delicate, beautiful.
- Favorite doll - this is what they say to a girl who is as cute as a doll.
- Kitten - if she is as playful and cheerful as a kitten. It's always a pleasure to watch her.
- The Little Mermaid is for a girl who loves water and the ocean.
- Dancer - refers to a girl who loves to dance and have fun.
- Sleeping beauty - when you enjoy watching your lover's cute sleeping face. Her childish serenity during sleep is one of the most touching moments for you and a good option for affectionately calling a girl.
- Goldfish - she fulfills your every wish, like a goldfish.
- Sweetheart - She has a sweet personality and a kind heart, so remind her of this often.
- Hasty - because she is always in a hurry.
- My little angel is for girls who never get into trouble.
- Little Lady - She may be short in stature, but she is always a lady in her manners.
- Krasotulya is an “evergreen” name, that is, it is always relevant and pleasant for women. (By the way, we recommend reading a few tips,)
- The love of my life - this is what they say to the only one who is truly loved.
- The gentle sun is the light of your life and the warmth of your world.
- Fantastic - about a girl who is too good to be true.
- Cinderella is the princess of your heart.
- Blue-eyed/brown-eyed/green-eyed - refers to a girl whose bright and beautiful eyes deserve a suitable name.
- Butterfly is a girl who has had a beautiful transformation in her life.
- Charming - if she is sweet, charming, be sure to emphasize this.
- The rose is precious, beautiful and tender, like a rose.
- The dove is beautiful and innocent, like a white dove.
- Peach is a bright and attractively juicy woman.
- Laughter - if her laughter is so contagious that you cannot remain serious.
- Burning-hot is a special way to affectionately call a girl who brings passion into a man’s life.
- A girl of heavenly beauty - the girl's appearance is so good that nothing else but heaven can describe her.
- Temptress - this is ideal for a life partner, a soulmate during flirting.
- Riddle/mysterious - refers to one that appears to you from a new side every time.
- A daisy - if it is as delicate as a flower.
- Mischievous - an appeal to a cheerful, perky girl.
- A magician - she has golden hands.
- Lioness - she is merciless in the fight for her man.
- Cherry - ideal for a girl whom a guy wants to take tender care of.
- Titmouse is a cute name to call your funny and playful friend.
- Cutie is the nicest nickname for a girl.
- Caramel - it is as sweet and pleasant as candy - a fun option for calling a girl affectionately and coolly.
- Intoxicating - refers to the lady whose love intoxicates you.
- Dragonfly - its look is very exotic.
- Unflappable - although she is a woman, she is able to master any situation.
- Sincere - an appeal to someone who has an honest and caring heart.
- A snowflake is as pure as snow and just as delicate.
- Freckles - when a woman has freckles that decorate her so cutely.
- A pearl is innocent and precious.
- The light of my life - she brought light to your life.
- Ballerina - she is graceful and light, like a ballerina.
- My passion - she will be pleased to hear that she is your passion.
- Venus - let her know that she is your goddess of love.
- Firefly - refers to the one who truly illuminates a man’s life.
- Shy - speaks for itself.
- Canary - for a girl with a beautiful voice who loves to sing.
- The tigress is graceful and full of strength.
What does it mean how affectionately a guy calls you
In this video you can understand what a guy means when he calls a girl by this or that affectionate name.
How can you call a girl beautiful and unusual?
How to call a girl affectionately and originally
Some of the names are best used on special occasions. For example, you don’t want the meaning of what was said to be understood by someone else (strangers), be it friends or relatives, but so that it is clear to your beloved girl. Then a name in a foreign language would be best.
- Inamorata is an affectionate term for the woman you love in Italian.
- Chico (Chico) is a tender address in Spanish for the girl you love.
- Cuore mio - my heart. (Italian)
- Bonita - attractive. (Spanish)
- Nene - baby. (Spanish)
- Hermoso - beautiful. (Spanish)
- Doro - a gift. (Greek)
- Loo Loo - If your girl is cool, cheerful and pleasant, who can decorate anyone with her disposition. (eng.)
- Amelie, which means "my hope" in Arabic, is used to describe the woman one loves.
- Esha - desirable from Indian.
- Jiya is an Indian sweetheart.
- Alamea means precious in Hawaiian.
- Lilly is a beautiful and tender girl like a lily.
- Bambina means sexy girl.
- Lala is a musical cute nickname for girls.
Mistakes to avoid when approaching a girl
Are you trying to make her feel special and unique rather than scary? Then, when choosing what kind words to call a girl, try to avoid some of the common mistakes that guys make when choosing nicknames for girls.
- Avoid being that guy who only calls his girl cat and puppy names, or at worst something from the animal kingdom. Thinking that she will definitely like them.
- Don't push it. If you just started dating, be careful what you approach her. Avoiding calling it “sweetheart, darling, baby, baby.”
- Refrain from mockery in names. Pyshechka, chubby and others of this kind are obviously not good and affectionate names for a girl who is overweight.
- Avoid embarrassing her. For example, paying attention to some features of her body, figure in front of her parents, friends or relatives.
- Don't stick to a name that she can't stand.
How to choose affectionate names for your girlfriend
- Try not just to choose a name, but to find an affectionate title that has some good story behind it.
- If she likes shortened names, then use different variations of her shortened pet names.
- When it comes to affectionately calling a girl you like, choose a name that characterizes your friend’s personality. Questions to help you choose the right name:
- Is she calm or eccentric?
- Shy or not?
- Playful or serious?
- Tender or rough?
- Kind or vengeful?
Pay attention to her physical characteristics. Answer yourself:
- Is she tall or small?
- Beautiful or just attractive?
- Does she have big fingers or small ones?
- Blue eyes or brown?
- Is the bust small or not?
Consider interests and hobbies. This is a great source of pet names for your girlfriend. For example, if she loves to cook, you can call her a “wonderful cook.” Think:
- What does she like to do?
- What hobbies does she have?
- What sports are you interested in?
- What films does she like?
CONCLUSION
Are you interested in how to affectionately call your beloved girl? When deciding to call your beloved by an affectionate nickname, keep in mind that it is best when it matches her. Her personality or what she likes. In addition, the name should not hurt feelings or insult the girl by pointing out her shortcomings. Use common sense and you'll be fine.
I suggest watching a video with motor girls and their advice on what to call your beloved?
