Why do people shout when they quarrel?
Modern parable.
Once a wise Teacher asked his students: “Do you know why people scream when they quarrel?”
One of the students replied: “People scream because they lose their calm.”
“But why should you shout, because the other person is next to you?” - asked the Teacher - “Isn’t it possible to speak quietly? Why yell at another person if you're angry?
The students offered their own answers, but none of them satisfied the Teacher. Finally he explained:
“When people are dissatisfied with each other and quarrel, their hearts grow distant. In order to cover this distance and hear each other, they have to shout. The more angry they become, the greater the distance between their hearts becomes, and the louder they scream.
What happens to people when they fall in love? They do not scream, but on the contrary, they speak quietly. This happens because the hearts of lovers are very close to each other - the distance between them is very small.”
“And when people fall even more in love, what happens?” - continued the Teacher - “Lovers do not speak, but only quietly whisper, and become even closer in their love.
Later, they don’t even need to whisper. They just look at each other and understand each other perfectly without words. This always happens when two people who love each other are nearby.
So, when you argue, do not allow your hearts to move away from each other, do not utter words that further increase the distance between you. Because a day may come when the distance becomes so great that you will not be able to find your way back.”
Building a relationship with a partner can be difficult. But who can do this for you if not you?
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One day the Teacher asked the students:
Why do people raise their voices when they quarrel?
“They’re probably losing their calm,” the students suggested.
– But why raise your voice if the second person is next to you? - asked the Teacher.
The students shrugged their shoulders in bewilderment. It never even occurred to them. Then the teacher said:
– When people quarrel and discontent between them increases, their hearts move away. And along with them, their souls move away. They have to raise their voices to hear each other. And the stronger their resentment and anger, the louder they scream. What happens when people are in love? They do not raise their voices, but speak very quietly. Their hearts are very close, and the distance between them is almost completely erased.
– What happens when people are ruled by love? – asked the Teacher. “They don’t even speak, they just whisper. And sometimes no words are needed - their eyes say it all. Do not forget that quarrels distance you from each other, and words spoken in a raised tone increase this distance many times over. Do not abuse this, because the day will come when the distance between you will increase so much that you will no longer find a way back.
One day the Teacher asked the students:
They must be losing their calm, the students suggested.
The students shrugged their shoulders in bewilderment. It never even occurred to them. Then the teacher said:
When people quarrel and discontent between them increases, their hearts are moving away. And along with them, their souls move away. They have to raise their voices to hear each other. And the stronger their resentment and anger, the louder they scream. What happens when people are in love? They do not raise their voices, but speak very quietly. Their hearts are very close and the distance between them is almost completely erased.
What happens when people are ruled by love? - asked the Teacher.
They don't even speak, they just whisper. And sometimes no words are needed - their eyes say it all. Do not forget that quarrels distance you from each other, and words spoken in a raised tone increase this distance many times over. Do not abuse this, because the day will come when the distance between you will increase so much that you will no longer find a way back.
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One day the Teacher asked the students:
They must be losing their calm, the students suggested.
The students shrugged their shoulders in bewilderment. It never even occurred to them. Then the teacher said:
When people quarrel and discontent between them increases, their hearts are moving away. And along with them, their souls move away. They have to raise their voices to hear each other. And the stronger their resentment and anger, the louder they scream. What happens when people are in love? They do not raise their voices, but speak very quietly. Their hearts are very close and the distance between them is almost completely erased.
What happens when people are ruled by love? - asked the Teacher.
They don't even speak, they just whisper. And sometimes no words are needed - their eyes say it all. Do not forget that quarrels distance you from each other, and words spoken in a raised tone increase this distance many times over. Do not abuse this, because the day will come when the distance between you will increase so much that you will no longer find a way back.
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Alcoholic drinks prevent you from losing weight. The point is not so much that alcohol increases appetite and reduces self-control (and it is so), but that the brain, having detected the presence of ethyl alcohol in the blood, stops metabolism, including the process of converting fat into glucose, and concentrates on removing alcohol and its toxic derivatives from the body as soon as possible.
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